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Getting Married When We (May) Want Different Things from Sex

greentea23 asks:

I am 23 and I am getting married this fall. I have never had sex before because I have been waiting for marriage. My fiance is not a virgin. We have different views on the purpose of sex. His goals are intimacy and pleasure. I have a lifelong history of feeling guilty about any kind of physical pleasure and therefore trying to avoid it altogether. I really do not care whether I ever have an orgasm. I actually do not know what I think the point of sex is. How can we start a sexual relationship when our goals for sex are so different?

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A problem with "premature" ejaculation...maybe isn't premature ejaculation.

ctguy asks:

My boyfriend and I started having sex about a week ago. Our first time was also my first time having sex. The three times we've had sex so far, I've finished a lot earlier than him, and a lot earlier than I want to. Basically I'm on the brink of coming by the time things get hot and heavy near the end of foreplay. I have no problem getting him off and I've managed to hide my quickness so far by pretending to come into a condom or tissue. But it's hard to keep up the ruse, and sex would obviously be a lot more enjoyable if I had control over my own stamina. Is this something that happens to all guys their first few times, or is there something I can do to fix it?

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自慰有错吗?

下一次有人告訴你,只有失敗者手淫,或者說他們不這樣做,永遠不會,牢記這一點:根據大多數研究和調查,約95%的成年人都有手淫或繼續這樣做。許多謊言和手淫真正的誤解,那豈不是95每100人將是盲目的,流口水精神病患者的頭髮在他們的手掌和生殖器萎縮。

更持久些: 为什么是男性而不是女性在担心

funkykingston asks:

一位读者写信来问,他怎么才能在做爱的时候让勃起更持久些。信里是这么写的:

我是一个15岁的男生。 我现在还没有开始恋爱,我也不会很快就发生阴道性交。但是,既然还有的是时间,我觉得应该开始锻炼,让自己在做爱的时候能够更持久——等到了那一天我就会大有用武之地了。

我自慰已经有一段时间了,充分地探索和认识了自己和自身的各种性反应。 我很清楚自己没有下列问题:

· 我没有感到不自信,感到害怕,也不觉得自己有什么 不足之处

· 我不会因为观看色情作品,而对什么是“正常”性行为有过不切实际的想法

· 我不认为只有阴道性交才是“真正”的性爱

· 我不同意用一个人的勃起持久能力来判断此人是否优秀、有多“男人”

同时我也知道,勃起更持久的话会增加我和我将来的爱侣在性生活中得到的乐趣。我在网上看到很多有关性技巧的资讯,但是我知道很多都是有人想通过劝诱别人相信他们所谓神奇的解决方法来挣大钱,所以我还是问你们吧,到底什么方法有效呢。 谢谢!

第一次

如果你正在考慮性(陰道)性交與異性伴侶,和你有你覺得你需要的一切:重大,在你們的關係方面,以及在感情上,你可能想知道如何使這一切工作你的第一次。問題的大部分,我們得到被問及第一次性交是:會痛嗎?我會流血?我會恨呢?我很害怕,我該怎麼辦?為什麼不是我男朋友跟我說話,現在我們已經有性行為?為什麼我沒有性高潮?為什麼不覺得它像什麼?

女性身体部位

很多關於如何性交,如何手淫的問題,以及有關什麼都去上那裡的憂慮可以通過簡單地去了解自己的身體得到解決。其實,我甘德說,以前你讓別人去了解它,你最好知道你自己以及知道你自己的臉。

关于怀孕:谬论与偏见

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