My boyfriend is convinced that I should douche. I have told him about what I've read on this site about how bad they can be for you but he argues that they wouldn't exist if they were that bad. I have recently had 2 UTIs and 2 yeast infections within a couple of months so now I am wondering if maybe he is right and that I should douche... According to him, my vagina smells and tastes differently than it used to. Could douching "fix" this? Should I douche?? HELP!

My boyfriend and i recently had sex twice (unfortunately more than three days ago, so Plan B is not an option). He was really "anxious" the second time and kept becoming hard although he couldn't really stay hard. The condom kept rolling up slightly (it was still about an inch from the tip so it didn't fall off). He would re-adjust it as soon as he could and since he had cum not even an hour before, there was no cum in this condom yet. I was just wondering if that was still safe, like is there more of chance of pregnancy from that? If it helps, the condom had spermicide lube and did not break (i filled it with water to be sure). Any advice or info would be greatly appreciated.