I'm 17 and about 2 months ago became sexually active with my partner of one year. And when I say sexually active, I mean having intercourse. My boyfriend is 20 and was so patient with everything.

Recently, he's hinted at me 'going down' on him. The thought of doing it doesn't disgust me or anything, but each time he hints at it I feel reluctant and end up not doing it. I'm going through the possible reasons why I stop myself, but I'm at a loss. I think I'm just nervous because I've never done it before; and the fact that he's older and has a bit more experience is intimidating. Would it be best to bring it up with him and talk about it?

Another thing, I haven't done much research into it on my own, but I'm wondering about going on the pill. Setting aside the risk of STDs, how much of a risk factor is there of getting pregnant just using the pill? Generally, the condom just seems the safest way, but I just wish he could get the most pleasure out of sex possible. However, I won't put myself at risk of pregnancy for it. Not ready for a baby now (but maybe some day!).

Thanks,