stereotypes

How can I get him to kiss me?

loloismyfriend asks:

I have a boyfriend, and we're kind of close. We were friends for a long time before actually becoming a couple. I need to know how to go in to kiss him, and how to make it so I'm not nervous, he really likes talking to me and I know we're boyfriend and girlfriend. But he never goes in to kiss me, and I want to be kissed. How do I get him to come in and kiss me? If he doesn't kiss me does that mean he's gay?

What if my boyfriend doesn't listen to me when we have sex?

Violet asks:

I have never ever had sex before. My BF is great: he knows me, and he likes having fun. We're both about the same age. If he's energetic, what should I do if he gets out of control? His listening skills aren't that great.

Drinking and double standards

jaclynn asks:

Why is it that guys find it a turn off when a girl drinks? When it comes to guys, it does not matter if they drink or not, but when it comes to girls they can't drink at all -- why is it like that?