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  • Susie Tang

The instructions on every packet of condoms I have ever seen (including condoms in countries outside the United States) clearly state that once the man has ejaculated, he needs to withdraw and dispose of the condom promptly. Proper withdrawal means you grip the ring firmly, pull out completely and...

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  • Susie Tang

This is an unusual question, and I'm not sure if you intended to ask this literally, but let's see... There is no set number -- minimum or maximum -- of times you can have sex before you get pregnant. A person with the capacity to get pregnant can have sex and get pregnant the first time they do so...

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  • Sarah Riley

You know, as a culture we've somehow developed an awfully funny idea of what is "sex" and what isn't "sex" that seems pretty darn arbitrary. Think about it, manual sex, oral sex, anal sex...all those things have the word sex in them. So quite honestly, from a sexual health and public health...

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  • Heather Corinna

Is it possible to have sex with someone while they're asleep? Sure it is. Is it likely they won't wake up at all? Not so much. Is it likely that person would wake up and think it was awesome someone was engaging them in sex without their permission in advance? Probably not. More to the point, is it...

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  • Heather Corinna

Here are the possibilities, in order of most likely to least: He WAS with someone else over this last year. I know that's certainly the least easy possibility to look at, but if he really tested all clear before the last round of tests within the amount of time you two have been together, and you...

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  • Heather Corinna

You know, sex really is supposed to be fun, so while it is absolutely wise to do all you can to prevent a pregnancy, there are ways to do that which don't have to be so involved or be a big buzzkill. Condoms, when used properly, are highly effective: around 98% effective with perfect use. Perfect...

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  • Heather Corinna

It's so tragic that anyone is afraid to ask questions about something so important, but it's an unfortunate reality for a lot of people. Just know that this isn't a place where you need to be scared to ask anything, okay? This is what we're here for! Is intercourse supposed to hurt? No, intercourse...

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  • Heather Corinna

There is a risk of sexually transmitted infection simply because he's ejaculating inside you. You can't reduce that risk once it has occurred. And trying to douche or wash out the inside of the vagina only inclines you to things like yeast infections and vaginal imbalances more: that's a harm, not a...

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  • Hollie West

The NuvaRing is a HIGHLY effective method of birth control. As you'll see here, the NuvaRing has only a 8% failure rate with typical use (and less than 2% with perfect use). This is lower than the birth control pill (9%) and the external condom (15%). The real question is how much of a risk you and...

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  • Heather Corinna

First things first: with ANY new partner -- as in, someone we have not been with for six months or more, and practicing all aspects of safer sex with -- we really, truly should be using latex barriers (condoms, in this case) with fellatio. I know, I do, that at 14, it often seems really unlikely...