I was always known as the virgin girl because I told people that I would keep my virginity till marriage. But just last year I got a new boyfriend who was quite horny himself. When I was over at his house, we did it for the first time. At first it didn't go in so then he told me to get on top on him and it started to go in. It hurt a lot but I didn't bleed. I believe we probably last for 5 minutes or so until I told him to stop cause it hurted quite bad. That was my first and only time I did it.

I have a new boyfriend whom I think I might like a lot. I'm planning on doing it with him in the future. Like everyone else he thinks I'm still a virgin. In the future when we actually do it.. can he tell if I did it with someone before? The thing is that my boyfriend isn't a virgin and had done it many times with his exes. I'm afraid he will eventually know that I'm not a virgin.

Okay here's my problem. I'm 14 and I've had sex with only one guy but a bunch of times and it got around in my school. I really cared about the guy I had sex with. It's not that I didn't like it but after things didn't work out I finally decided I was too young for sex. But now every guy I date or go out with, that's all they want. I can't seem to find someone to just like me for me and not just because they think I'll have sex with them. I don't know what I should do. Can you help me?