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Do Drugs and Booze Make You Better in Bed?
A recent study was released which shows that European teens are using alcohol and recreational drugs with the intentional aim of improving their sex lives.
When I'm fingering her, she seems completely unaffected: what's the deal?
Stevenmagee
I have fingered my girlfriend quite a few times now. I can only get one finger up there and she never seems to react, just stands there as if nothing is going on. Am I doing something wrong?...
What's wrong with my technique?!?
Honey
I've read that the head of men's penises are very sensitive, or the vein on the underside. But my boyfriend doesn't seem to be affected by it too much. In fact if it wasn't for the fact that he thrusts into my mouth when I go down on him, I would think he was completely unaffected....
How do you fix "dryness"?
mauiwaui
I'm dry before my boyfriend and I are about to have sex. What can I do to fix this problem?...
Neither of us are reaching orgasm, but I need him to.
Frustrated
I'm 17 and I have a boyfriend of 7 months, and we're both very much in love. We had sex 4 months ago and he didn't reach orgasm and I got the sense he was frustrated so we stopped trying until last weekend. We both really wanted it but the same situation happened where he didn't reach orgasm and I feel like it's my fault and that I'm just not hot enough for him....
We're abstinent, but we had anal sex and are scared to death.
Anonymous
My boyfriend and I are being abstinent until marriage. We only had sex once, we aren't doing it again and want to be renewed as being abstinent, and we are doing that with my cousin and her bf, because they quit after doing it for months, too. There was only one incident that happened, that scares us both to death....
Sex is no place to be dry.
Kristina
How do you stay dry when having sex? I get so wet within 5 minutes....
Unsatisfying sex and transitioning to college in our relationship
Anonymous
My boyfriend and I recently started having sex, we were both virgins. Making love to each other is amazing because we are in love but for me, I can't feel anything. I know theres a million reasons that maybe he doesn't know what to do and stuff but I was hoping if there were any suggestions to help....
How can I make my first time special?
Sarah M.
Having read several of your articles concerning "first time" sex, I understand that it may not (and probably won't be?) everything I'm expecting, and that you're "first time" isn't as big a deal as society makes it seem. But I would really like my first time to be special. Not necessarily perfect, but an event in my life I can look back on fondly....
He won't do anything sexual that's about my body: what can I do?
Jessica
My boyfriend does not satisfy me sexually. He only lasts about 10 minutes, he won't rub my clit because he doesn't want fluids on his hand and he won't eat me out because he thinks it's nasty, but he thinks that I should give him head. We have been together for 2 years and now it's really affecting me. What can I do?...