I've been with my girlfreind for almost 10 months. We have been in a long distance rlationship the whole time that we have been together but we have seen each other at least once a month and just recently spent the entire summer living together. But anyways I just moved back home and I need advice on how to have phone sex with her. Obviously we are having sex and I love her more then I have ever loved someone yet I cant seem to rid myself of this shyness I seem to have on the phone I want to but I am shy and so is she. I'ts hard for me to say the dirty words to her because I've always watched my mouth around ladys. How can I overcome this? I need to know how to initiate, continue and end.

I have a question which I'm not sure you can answer. I'm 18 years old and a virgin. I have always been kind of self-conscious about my sexuality with regards to expressing it. Recently I've been having phone sex with a woman and it has been the most amazing thing ever. The first time I was really nervous but eventually got into it. The third time we did it it went on for 2 hours. As I was lying there moaning (I hope this isn't too graphic) I started experiencing different parts of my psyche. It was like the purest form of self expression because my ego was completely abolished. At one point though, something happened, my voice got deeper, I started laughing, just out of no where, then my voice got deep and I became really commanding. It felt good because most of the time I feel really repressed, and it just felt good to be this calm happy but also very dominant guy. I want to be that guy again, I want to be more like myself, if that makes sense. I don't know how. Please help!