I will probably be giving my first blow job soon to the boy I have been dating for the past four months. The farthest he had gone before me was making out, and has since reached second base with me. I know he is a virgin to both intercourse and fellatio, but I am wondering if I still should ask him to buy condoms to have in case we reach third. I know that he has not slept around or even ever had sex, but I wonder if there is still some weird risk or something that he could pass me an STD. I am a very paranoid, rather OCD person and I'm worried about this. I have done a lot of research and all the websites say that when performing fellatio, you should use a (flavored) condom, but none of them mention if this is necessary even if the people involved are both young and virginal. I would love some advice. Thank you.

Hey. I have a question I want to be answered if you can! Well, I'm most likely going to get my first blow job sometime soon. I wanted to know when I ejaculate, should I tell the girl or should I just do it while she's giving me it, or what should I do? Watching porn doesn't answer my questions. And when having sex, what is the normal position in which most people start, so I don't embarrass myself. Thanks a lot!

I'm 17 and about 2 months ago became sexually active with my partner of one year. And when I say sexually active, I mean having intercourse. My boyfriend is 20 and was so patient with everything.

Recently, he's hinted at me 'going down' on him. The thought of doing it doesn't disgust me or anything, but each time he hints at it I feel reluctant and end up not doing it. I'm going through the possible reasons why I stop myself, but I'm at a loss. I think I'm just nervous because I've never done it before; and the fact that he's older and has a bit more experience is intimidating. Would it be best to bring it up with him and talk about it?

Another thing, I haven't done much research into it on my own, but I'm wondering about going on the pill. Setting aside the risk of STDs, how much of a risk factor is there of getting pregnant just using the pill? Generally, the condom just seems the safest way, but I just wish he could get the most pleasure out of sex possible. However, I won't put myself at risk of pregnancy for it. Not ready for a baby now (but maybe some day!).

Thanks,

Is there anything that can make me taste better down "there"? I know that pineapple is supposed to make it taste better but I'm allergic so thats not an option.My boyfriend doesn't complain or anything about the taste, and he will still go down on me but I want to make it as less gross for him as possible. Is there anything else I could start eating or taking that will make me taste better?

I'm 15 and wondering about ejaculation. my girlfriend's given me handjobs/blowjobs before but i've always stopped her before ejaculating. i just thought it was an extravagant porn type thing to come in her mouth, but the other day my friends convinced me otherwise. It's not because i'm too nervous, i just thought otherwise. is she expecting me to go in her mouth, or are most handjobs/blowjobs used for foreplay.

oh, and i'm partially asking this because (differently from when i masturbate) she gets me excited a lot quicker and it doesn't take long before I'm know im going to ejaculate. i've only got oral a few times, is it because these times are my first, or do you think i won't grow out of that.

Last night I gave my boyfriend a blow job. It was my first time doing that so I'm like 99% sure it was bad for him. I told him to try and help me cuz I had no idea what I was doing. So, he'd push my head down and I think I was "deep-throating" or something but I couldnt exactly breathe. What am I doing wrong?

I'm 18, still in high school - it's kind of like a situation where age is just a number, I still highly consider myself a teenager.

Anyways, to my issue. First off, in order to set the scene, I need to say that I'm very sexually deviant. I think about sex all the time, I've viewed a lot of porn, I masturbate often (I think masturbation is a healthy alternative to going out and recklessly having sex), etc. I can literally think of myself sexually involved with most, if not all, of the attractive women in my life or that I know. Strange thing is, if anything happened, I don't think I'd even be willing to have sex till I'm older or am sure I'm ready.

Well, I like this girl in school. Yet, I think of her as a beatiful person, not a sex object. I have very, very strong feelings for her, more than a girl I would normally ask out. About 3 days ago, I started to have sexual thoughts about her. I don't find that abnormal, but I did have one strange one. All of a sudden I developed an urge to want to lick (perform oral) on her, but not on her vagina...try a little bit higher.

It's strange. I am very sexually deviant and have had some fetish thoughts before, but this case is just different. The thoughts lasted with me for a while. I normally don't think like this, but it's just so strange...for some reason, I find that to be so sexually appealing, and it seemed to come out of nowhere. Obviously, with that came the general thoughts about sex with her - penetration, regular oral, etc. But those have faded, but not the certain one I mentioned earlier. I just wanted some input on this, just to hear someone else's opinion. Thanks!