obligation

Sex positivity should have given me the courage to ask for what I wanted. Instead, I thought it meant accepting what I got.

(Elizabeth's question continued) I tried to show him porn and he literally left the room. I know he isn't gay because whatever hatred he has for the female body is only a fraction of how turned off he is by the male body. He says that he sees sexual things as a chore and would rather masturbate...

Partnered sex doesn't have to be quid pro quo. In other words, there's no need for there to somehow be some perfectly identical exchange of activities, and with opposite-sex partners, that's not really even all that possible, since you've got different parts! What's important is that things are...