I'm 20 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. We are both virgins. Early in the relationship I told myself that I didn't want to have sex until marriage (mainly because I was, and still am, paranoid about becoming pregnant. He's been very patient and has never tried to force or guilt me into having sex. I guess I sort of have 2 separate questions:

I have given him HJs and BJs for a few years, but he has never done the same for me, not because he doesn't want to but because it just never feels good, even when I'm "in the mood." I've pretty much given up on even letting him try because I assume it's going to be hopeless. In addition, I've never masturbated for the same reason. Is there anything I can do to make it work?

Second, I've recently really been considering having sex with him, not because he's pushing me (he's not), but because I've just felt like I want to. I was considering going on the pill, but if not (or at least not yet), would taking EC afterward even with correct and "failure-free" condom use be a bad idea? Would it be pointless?

Its a few Qs actually, these questions are actually quite embarrassing.
1) Does everyone know like while sex is happening position comes next, or is it something that's talked about? Do you just know?
2) Why do people like Anus sex? Its going up the Hine-ee.
3) Doesn't it smell? How to get rid of smell?
4) Can a girl become pregnant from masturbating?

hi, I'm 14 and i have a few questions that i would like answered. the first one is that my penis is 6 inches long when erect, when is it going to stop growing or has it already stopped. when i peel my foreskin back a little bit, the head is very sensitive so when I'm going to get a blowjob i want to know if its going to be painful or uncumfortable. i started masturbating when i was 13 and when i cum it doesn't shoot out, it kinda flows out. ive seen a few porn videos and when the guy cums it shoots far. when will i be able to do that. for my last question, what kind of condom should i use?

thank you very much

I've been sexually active for a while now (I'm 20, sexually active for almost four years now) and have no interest in masturbation. All my girlfriends rave about it. I do it sometimes, mostly when my boyfriend and I have phone sex. But honestly, it really doesn't do anything for me. Plus, when I do masturbate, I can never achieve the type of orgasm I do when my boyfriend touches me. It's never as intense. My boyfriend's leaving for college again soon, and I think I'm going to go crazy without him being here to pleasure me. Any suggestions as to toot my own horn?

I'm 16, and I am still a virgin. When I masturbate it feels good, but when it's over nothing comes out. I was told that when you climax, something is supposed to come out. So is there something wrong with me?

I have been with my boyfriend for about three months and I am not sure if I'm ready to have sex. How do you really know if you're ready? We have talked about sex before and he wants to do it but I'm just not sure if I want to or not. We have done other things and have also talked about those and if it felt good for us. It was just a little bit awkward talking about it with him at first, then I got more comfortable. He's not pressuring me into doing it, I just want to make sure I'm absolutely ready because I don't want to regret it.

There is another question I would like to ask. If you have been masturbating for quite some time (by rubbing my clit), and I mean a long time, will I only be able to get pleasure from rubbing or will having sex feel good too? I have read somewhere that you can get used to one thing and only be able to feel pleasure from it. My boyfriend has fingered me, it hurt a little at first but then it didn't. It's not that I hated it, but I also didn't get pleasure from it. I'm scared that I won't be able to get pleasure from anything else other than rubbing. Please help.

I live in Africa. Here, both my religion and culture restrict that a girl should be a virgin unless she gets married. I masterbate and sometimes a lil blood droplet is there in my pants after I masterbate although I don't finger myself. I tried to finger after I saw that blood drop to check if my hymen is still intact, so I pressed my fingers into my vagina and it was there (a sorta layer) and it hurt me so I pulled my fingers out. The thing is, is my hymen still there or not? Should I stop masterbating if I want to keep my virginity or it doesn't matter ?

I can't have an orgasm: I have been sexually active for a year. Any suggestions?

I am 16 and sexually active but never have had an orgasm. I try to masterbate and it feels good but i have to stop half way through because my body trembles alot. What does this mean and how can I eventually have an orgasm?