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Can I stick my fingers and stuff into my cervix and stuff?

jennys_luvs_it asks:

I read something about a girl who was curious about sticking her finger into her cervix because she likes pain and she wanted to try it. I have heard about sticking fingers into the cervix and stuff like that too in BDSM circles and stuff. I'm kind of like the same way, I need sexual pain to get off. It's something that happened a while ago, although I'm underage you might say. So I have also been curious about it. I have read many stories of girls putting things inside themselves and through their cervices to reach deeper for that kind of sexual pain. Because I'm not concerned about having babies at all, and if I'm careful, I can still do that, right. I know you aren't for it but I was still just wondering how far I can actually go?

Working the Kinks Out

I'm 15 and I have a wonderful boyfriend who I am very much in love with. My boyfriend is the sweetest, gentlest, most caring person I have met in a while and I know he really cares about me and it's totally mutual.

The thing is, he has some crazy fetishes....not exactly crazy, but he really likes doing dominate-and-submissive stuff, where he gets to be the "slave." I know if I even said something like "I'm just not ready for stuff like that" or even that I don't like it, he'd be embarrassed. I don't want to do that to him! But I also do NOT want to feel pressured into doing anything just to make him happy, because I truly want to make him happy but when it comes to stuff I just don't really like that much, well if I let myself be pressured into one thing who knows what it could lead to. So how should I tell him without making him feel like crap?