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It’s typically assumed that sex and gender are the same. They’re not. What's gender all about, then? What is the range of gender and gender identity, and how does gender impact our lives and how we live them?

Sounds to me like you could use some good, old-fashioned vulva reclaiming. And it's so not just you that does, I swear. Let's start by tossing out terms like "va-jay-jay." Seriously, when television writers -- on a medical show, of all things -- have to be cute about it you know we're living in a...

You probably put the word cherry in quotes because you're not exactly sure what on earth it even is. That's understandable, since nobody really does, as it's not something real. Usually, when people talking about "cherry-popping," when it comes to sex, they are colloquially saying that someone...

You're right, while using contraceptives like the pill or condoms do provide really excellent protection from pregnancy (especially when taken/used absolutely correctly all the time), nothing is 100% except completely abstaining. Probably the best thing to do is to give a more detailed answer...

You know, if you went out on the street and asked 100 people what the "bases" were, I bet you'd get a TON of different answers. One of the issues with the old "baseball" analogy to describe sexual activities is that it is a culturally defined and influenced set of ideas. So different people define...

A "rim job" is a slang term for analingus. That means oral stimulation of the anus. A lot of people of all sexual orientations and genders enjoy analingus. People practicing rimming should be aware that it is risky in terms of disease transmission unless safer sex practices are used. A lot of...

I want to be accepted for who I am, not what I am. I don’t want to be straight if it’s just a VIP pass for friends.