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Hi, i'm seventeen years old and i've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We've waited all this time and finally think we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins too. The other night we were both finally ready to have sex and even while making out and the foreplay, he couldn't get hard. He asked me to give him head for a little, hoping he would get hard, but it just wouldn't. After the whole ordeal, he said he was just nervous and had been thinking too much about it all day before he even came to my house. I'm just so confused and a little upset about the whole situation. Why did this happen? Is it really nerves? I need answers! Thanks.