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Being bisexual entails a very specific struggle that isn’t talked about enough: being believed.

First off, I want to say that it takes an incredible amount of strength to have gone through (and continue to go through) what you have and survive. You've managed to grown and thrive in spite of other people doing awful things to you. That's not nothing. And that strength is going to come in handy...

To start off with, I can assure you that you're not the first person to be in this situation. So you don't have to feel as though you're the only straight person traveling in queer circles who's ever felt uncomfortable with the way straightness is discussed. And believe me when I say the advice I'm...

Have you been forgoing time with friends to hang out with your significant other, or vice versa? Either way, read on for help in dealing with this sticky predicament.

Hi, bifabulous! Congrats on becoming more aware of your own sexuality! Sadly, you're right: some people do harbor misconceptions and sexist notions about bisexual women. Racism and sexism added to the mix make the issue even thornier; as you said, there are a lot of harmful stereotypes about Asian...

I'm going to make probably the biggest understatement of the year: gender is complicated. As obvious a statement as that is, it's still true, and I think it's worth repeating. I think one thing a lot of people - even many gender-savvy folks or fellow trans people - sometimes forget is that there are...

What I'm not hearing in this is what you want. You tell me he's been touching your body more and more, but you didn't say anything about if that's something you want and have been enjoying. I hear the things he's been saying, but I don't know what you've been communicating to him yourself. The...

People do say that people are ready for sex -- and not just the first time, either -- at different times, different ages and in different situations. And that's absolutely right. Whether we do or don't want any kind of sex at any given time, with any given person, in any given situation, and also...

Steelflower's question continued: I'm deadly frightened to tell him because this is something I am really ashamed of. I trust him and know my secret would be safe with him, but I'm terrified that he'll suddenly find me disgusting, or frightening, or that he'll never be able to trust me again -...

Have all of your straight friends had sex with a guy if they're girls, or with a girl if they're guys? If not, how do they know they're straight? See how silly that is? Hopefully they will, too. It's not sage to make orientation something anyone needs to "prove" with sex for a whole lot of reasons...