My boyfriend and I have sex a lot and we both enjoy it. However, I can't feel him ejaculate inside me and I hate asking him if he's done because it's a real turn-off for both of us. Is it normal for girls to not be able to feel guys come inside them? And if so, how can I tell when he's done?

Does anal sex make your hips and bottom larger?

I'm thinking about going down on my boyfriend, but the idea of swallowing grosses me out. I know I can have him tell me when hes climaxing, but what do I do with the cum? Just let it go?