Hey. I'm 14 and I've never fingered myself. I've done other things, but the thought of fingering myself just seems gross. A couple times, I've tried to, but then I get to thinking about how gross vaginas are, and I chicken out. I know this is irrational, but do you have any advice on getting over this? Thanks.
Is it possible to change the colour of the vulva, especially the inner lips? Mine is kinda blackened, and I don't like the colour. But the outer lips are ok; they are in pink, except the inner one. Thanks.