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What do you love about your body right now?
What Would You Change About the Way Your Culture Views Sex and Sexuality?
How supported do you feel (by family, friends, society, etc) in your choices around sex?
What was the first thing, correct or incorrect, you remember learning about sex?
Do you feel like the expert of your own body?
What's scariest for you to talk with others about when it comes to sex or sexuality?
In any sex ed that someone else (school, parent, etc) provided for you, what wasn't included you wish had been?
What would/do you need to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?
Represent! What are you most hoping for from your sexual life?
Is sex somewhere you feel you have to be perfect?
When you really, really want something, how good are you at respecting limits and boundaries?
Do you know what your civil/legal sexual rights are?
If you (yourself) currently use a method of birth control, which one?
If sex creates fear or anxiety for you, but you still engage in it, why?
How does media you read or watch usually make you feel about sex?
Porn: How Much (or How Little) Does it Influence Your Sexuality?
Have you experienced jealousy while in a relationship (including with friends)?
What could make you more comfortable bringing up sexuality concerns or questions with adults?
What's the best thing your love can offer to others?
If you've been in a sexual relationship, has getting to any kind of sex usually felt too fast, too slow or just right?
How influenced do you feel you are by other people's sexual lives?
What new content would you like to see most at Scarleteen?
Do you have a good sexual/reproductive healthcare provider?
If you will be of age to vote and can vote in the upcoming US Presidential election:
How Do You Feel About Lube for Solo or Partnered Sex?
If you could pick one thing to get more support with per sexuality, it'd be:
If you worry about your sexual life, what one thing worries you the very most?
What's the biggest challenge for you so far with your sexual life?
If you didn't have safer sex in the past, but do now, what changed that the most?
If you've wanted/needed to use emergency contraception, have you had any trouble getting it?
When it comes to making sexual choices as a young person, do you feel/have you felt:
If you had to pick just ONE person you learned more about sex from than anyone else, would it be:
Been in and gotten out of an unhealthy/abusive relationship? What helped you leave most?
What are YOU doing most to turn the tide of HIV/AIDS in the world?
Do you care about a partner's sexual history?
How do you feel about your gender right now?
Overall, do you feel that the presentation of teen/young adult sex and sexuality you see in mainstream media is:
What kind of sexual/romantic relationship model per exclusivity do you want right now?
If you've dated/been in intimate relationships with people with more privilege than you, which has been hardest to deal with?
So far (or if you're through them), how would you describe your teen years?