Permalink Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 2016-02-03 11:47
- No one should feel entitled to other's bodies and to sex
- Gender-equal view of sexual drive, activity etc. (Meaning NO to "active men are studs and women sluts")
- Generally more sex positivity and removing the taboo of sex
- Accepting everyone as they are, including accepting ace-, poly-, etc. people and understanding seuality as dynamic and fluent
Permalink Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 2016-02-05 09:36
The limitation of sexuality to a narrow view of desirability
The idea that if you are disabled, or fat, or gender non-conforming, or scarred, or old, you cannot be a sexual being, because no one would ever want you, and if someone does there is something wrong with them, something to be fixed.
Permalink Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 2016-02-15 06:17
I would like to see a more holistic approach to sex, where sex is understood as a way to express one's own sexuality with their WHOLE body and mind. I would change the idea that the only "real" sex - or anyway, the one kind that is above any other sexual act - is penetrative sex and everything else is "preliminaries" or "feeling each others up" etc. (I think this is especially true in heterosexual relationships, even though, at least in my indirect experience i.e. discussions with many homosexual friends, framing sex as first and foremost penetration is the default also for homosexual people).
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- No one should feel entitled
- No one should feel entitled to other's bodies and to sex
- Gender-equal view of sexual drive, activity etc. (Meaning NO to "active men are studs and women sluts")
- Generally more sex positivity and removing the taboo of sex
- Accepting everyone as they are, including accepting ace-, poly-, etc. people and understanding seuality as dynamic and fluent
That everything is binary.
That everything is binary. Good-bad, straight-gay, boy-girl. Society imposes a black and white mentality that no group is immune to.
The limitation of sexuality
The limitation of sexuality to a narrow view of desirability
The idea that if you are disabled, or fat, or gender non-conforming, or scarred, or old, you cannot be a sexual being, because no one would ever want you, and if someone does there is something wrong with them, something to be fixed.
I think we should destroy the
I think we should destroy the gender binary, there is more than just girl and boy!
I would like to see a more
I would like to see a more holistic approach to sex, where sex is understood as a way to express one's own sexuality with their WHOLE body and mind. I would change the idea that the only "real" sex - or anyway, the one kind that is above any other sexual act - is penetrative sex and everything else is "preliminaries" or "feeling each others up" etc. (I think this is especially true in heterosexual relationships, even though, at least in my indirect experience i.e. discussions with many homosexual friends, framing sex as first and foremost penetration is the default also for homosexual people).
Consent and safety should be
Consent and safety should be the only rules in the bedroom, or the living room, or the kitchen, or the back yard...
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