Permalink Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 2014-06-02 06:06
I picked the first option, and it's definitely how I feel. That said, sometimes it's not that easy to stick to in real life - if I'm with a partner I'm really compatible with, then we both feel comfortable enough to not be self-conscious at all; but those people are kind of like gold dust for me, so I've often been in situations where I do end up feeling self-conscious and being more passive that I'd like to just because it's not really an ideal sexual setting for me.
Permalink Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 2015-02-16 15:15
I HATE the word perfect! In my opinion there is no such thing as 'perfect' or 'normal' because there is no specific criteria that ANYONE should have to compare theirself to. And to me, wanting sex is a pure feeling of lust towards another person. That is what we should be focusing on when we are with a person we care about, not how 'perfect' your hair looks or how big your penis is!
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I picked the first option,
I picked the first option, and it's definitely how I feel. That said, sometimes it's not that easy to stick to in real life - if I'm with a partner I'm really compatible with, then we both feel comfortable enough to not be self-conscious at all; but those people are kind of like gold dust for me, so I've often been in situations where I do end up feeling self-conscious and being more passive that I'd like to just because it's not really an ideal sexual setting for me.
"Perfection" and "Normality" in sex
I HATE the word perfect! In my opinion there is no such thing as 'perfect' or 'normal' because there is no specific criteria that ANYONE should have to compare theirself to. And to me, wanting sex is a pure feeling of lust towards another person. That is what we should be focusing on when we are with a person we care about, not how 'perfect' your hair looks or how big your penis is!
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