I think doing it more will help me learn to be more comfortable.
23% (305 votes)
My boyfriend/girlfriend/partner wants me to.
9% (116 votes)
It scares me, but the positives it gives me are worth it.
10% (129 votes)
I feel like it's supposed to be scary: that's just part of the deal.
4% (56 votes)
I like something about the fear or anxiety it creates.
3% (34 votes)
I am having a hard time saying no or stepping back from sex.
8% (102 votes)
I'm in an abusive or controlling relationship.
1% (17 votes)
I don't know.
3% (41 votes)
Some other reason (tell us in the comments!)
2% (31 votes)
I don't: I'm stepping back until I'm less freaked out.
12% (161 votes)
I don't engage in any kind of sex OR I do, but it doesn't create fear or anxiety for me.
24% (318 votes)
Total votes: 1310