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Do you care about a partner's sexual history?

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Submitted by Heather Corinna on Tue, 2011-11-08 08:44
I identify as a man: that's not an issue for me.
7% (101 votes)
I identify as a woman: that's not an issue for me.
7% (100 votes)
I identify differently than man/woman: that's not an issue for me.
1% (12 votes)
I identify as a man: I care, but mostly about if a partner has been kind to and safe with others & themselves.
9% (144 votes)
I identify as a woman: I care, but mostly about if a partner has been kind to and safe with others & themselves.
36% (553 votes)
I identify differently than man/woman: I care, but mostly about if a partner has been kind to others & themselves.
3% (49 votes)
I identify as a man: I care if they've had more partners than I feel is acceptable.
5% (77 votes)
I identify as a woman: I care if they've had more partners than I feel is acceptable.
8% (114 votes)
I identify differently than man/woman: I care if if they've had more partners than I feel is acceptable.
1% (10 votes)
I identify as a man: I care when a partner does NOT have any sexual history.
2% (28 votes)
I identify as a woman: I care when a partner does NOT have any sexual history.
2% (24 votes)
I identify differently than man/woman: I care when a partner does NOT have any sexual history.
0% (7 votes)
I identify as a man: it really depends on the person and my feelings for them.
5% (74 votes)
I identify as a woman: it really depends on the person and my feelings for them.
10% (155 votes)
I identify differently than man/woman: it really depends on the person and my feelings for them.
2% (29 votes)
I really don't know or something else (tell us in the comments!)
3% (43 votes)
Total votes: 1520

NO not really, i mean what

Wed, 2013-04-03 18:56
NoodleChop

NO not really, i mean what they did is in the past as long as it doesnt affect our relationship and as long as that he has been cleared of SAIs, HIV and aids.

I have only had one sexual

Tue, 2012-12-11 12:10
Anonymous

I have only had one sexual partner, who I dated twice with a two year break inbetween when he went to college. He has kissed a total of ten girls and been sexual with three. While I'm one of these girls, it breaks my heart to know that he's been with so many and I've only given myself to him.

I love my partner very much,

Fri, 2012-08-17 07:39
Anonymous

I love my partner very much, and we are in a monogamous relationship. He is the only sexual partner I've ever had, but he had one before me. I know it shouldn't be an issue, and it almost never comes up, but I'm bothered by it on an irrational, emotional level. I get jealous of the girl I never met, who had sex with my boyfriend before I even knew him.

Protect yourself and others as well

Thu, 2011-11-24 12:44
Anonymous

15 years ago I lost and Great Uncle who was HIV positive so yes I do care about my sexual partners history I get tested all the time even when my partner tells me that he is Negative I still protect my self........

More than one!

Wed, 2011-11-23 16:43
Anonymous

I identify as a woman, I care mostly about whether people are kind and safe, and I also strongly prefer partners who've had a bunch of varied sexual experiences.

Option 5

Sat, 2011-11-12 09:34
Anonymous

... Is the closest--though I meant to select the last option, quoting "I identify as a woman: I care, but mostly about if a partner has been kind to and safe with others & themselves," and, as not the most experienced lover myself, adding a touch: that partner potentially being more confident about telling me what they want and like or don't want or don't like (I know these qualities aren't magically or defaultly granted). Though exploring together is rather fun...

I care but only about how

Tue, 2011-11-08 15:58
Anonymous

I care but only about how their history effects our future, if they have been good to themselves and others but also if others have been good to them, ect.

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