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What term do you prefer to use/hear for having sex?

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Submitted by Heather Corinna on Fri, 2010-01-08 11:00

Depends...

Mon, 2013-10-21 15:00
Delphina13

It's making Love if it is primarily an act of Love, and it's "having sex" or "f*cking" if it's purely an act of pleasure.

Sexytime!

Mon, 2011-05-23 23:16
Anonymous

Sexytime!

Nu'ni

Wed, 2011-03-23 17:53
Anonymous

Nu'ni is mine and my girlfriend term for vagina so if i want some it justt say. Nu'ni in an innocent voice.

Cuddling~

Thu, 2011-01-20 20:03
Anonymous

Sounds innocent and common enough, but me and my boyfriend know what it means. I can say it anywhere without feeling like the whole world knows my business, and no one can judge. :)

hanky panky. mostly as a

Fri, 2011-01-07 21:22
Anonymous

hanky panky. mostly as a joke. my mom told me and my step sister 'no hanky panky' one day, and that became the phrase among my friends. there is also a song by tommy jones and the shondells by that name.

I usually use "fucking" to

Tue, 2010-11-30 22:11
imasupermuteant

I usually use "fucking" to refer to penetrative sex and "sex" to refer to anything else (oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc.) Most euphemisms for sex really bother me. I'd much prefer people to just say what they mean.

Middle/Elementary School Scoop

Thu, 2010-11-11 17:11
Anonymous

When you are in middle or elementary school sex is VERY taboo and is often called 'doing it' which is rather silly because (for example) when the teacher tells you an assignment isn't due until tomorrow and you say to your friend "I already did it with (insert name of friend of the opposite gender)" a very annoying person can say "YOU DID IT WITH (insert name again)!!!! GROSS!!!". I prefer just having sex.

Depends on the mood!

Sat, 2010-09-11 04:16
Anonymous

IT depends,when talking about it with my freinds we say "doing it", "having sex", "sleeping together".
But when Im with my boyfriend we sometimes say "fucking".

Other name

Sun, 2010-08-29 10:15
Anonymous

Hooking up.

That 70's show

Fri, 2010-08-06 13:54
Anonymous

Taking a Walk

screwing

Wed, 2010-06-16 15:34
Anonymous

screwing

Nicknames for sex.

Sat, 2010-06-05 00:08
Anonymous

My friends and I refer to it as 'doing the dirty' or 'doing the grownup.' :D

Smashing

Sun, 2010-05-16 14:03
Anonymous

For some reason the students at the high school I go to refer to it as "smashing" and they will usually say "Hey you want to smash?". I have no idea who came up with it.

What I call ''it''

Mon, 2010-05-10 07:21
Anonymous

Me and my friends usually refer to it as ''Jizzpitching''. That said, I would like to add that I personally think that's the most awesome nickname for having sex =)

Doing the funky chicken.

Sun, 2010-04-11 02:59
Woodpig

Doing the funky chicken.

rooting.

Thu, 2010-04-08 06:02
Anonymous

rooting.

Fooling around

Sat, 2010-04-03 20:26
Anonymous

we just call it fooling around, because we don't really take sex too seriously we just want it to be a time where we are having fun with each other and enjoying each other.

i call it boning

Thu, 2010-03-18 20:59
Anonymous

i call it boning

実は。。。

Fri, 2010-01-08 12:18
Moya

私と彼はやる事という言葉が一番好きなんです。

My boyfriend and I prefer to use Japanese, actually. We call it having sex when speaking English and やる事 (yarukoto) when speaking Japanese. Literally, I guess that would be doing it. Ah well. Thought I'd put in my two cents.

I like to use the terms

Tue, 2011-01-04 21:28
Anonymous

I like to use the terms making love and having sex, but with my bf we usually say fucking.

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