Usually, during any kind of sexual activity with a partner,

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I'm female or female-identified and more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
20% (548 votes)
I'm female or female-identified and equally invested in both my satisfaction and my partner's.
25% (692 votes)
I'm female or female-identified and more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
5% (132 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
14% (399 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and equally invested in my satisfaction and my partner's.
11% (298 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
2% (60 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
1% (33 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am equally invested in my satisfaction and my partner's.
1% (38 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
1% (18 votes)
I have not yet or ever had any kind of sex with a partner.
20% (562 votes)
Total votes: 2780

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This has been the case for me up until recently. I have been too shy (due to inexperience, mostly) to pleasure my boyfriend and he's seemed content with just giving me pleasure, but I feel as if it's unbalanced (which I'm sure it is). Now I've become more interested in pleasuring him as well, though I haven't tried anything yet.

Pleasuring my partner is very important to me, and it gives me pleasure to do so, so the go hand in hand, for me at least.

Still looking for a girlfriend...haven't ever really talked to girls about being more than friends..and i'm 22

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