I'm female or female-identified and more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
20% (540 votes)
I'm female or female-identified and equally invested in both my satisfaction and my partner's.
25% (676 votes)
I'm female or female-identified and more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
5% (128 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
14% (395 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and equally invested in my satisfaction and my partner's.
11% (294 votes)
I'm male or male-identified and more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
2% (59 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am more invested in satisfying my partner than myself.
1% (33 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am equally invested in my satisfaction and my partner's.
1% (38 votes)
I identify differently than male/female and am more invested in satisfying myself than my partner.
1% (18 votes)
I have not yet or ever had any kind of sex with a partner.
20% (556 votes)
Total votes: 2737
No sex at allMon, 2009-08-31 17:08
Newbie22
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Still looking for a girlfriend...haven't ever really talked to girls about being more than friends..and i'm 22
Pleasuring my partner isMon, 2009-07-27 13:03
A-Totem-Belladonna
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Pleasuring my partner is very important to me, and it gives me pleasure to do so, so the go hand in hand, for me at least.
Female/female-identified & invested in satisfying myselfFri, 2009-07-24 01:40
JordashVQ
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This has been the case for me up until recently. I have been too shy (due to inexperience, mostly) to pleasure my boyfriend and he's seemed content with just giving me pleasure, but I feel as if it's unbalanced (which I'm sure it is). Now I've become more interested in pleasuring him as well, though I haven't tried anything yet.