The pace of my sexuality and sex life -- whatever that has been -- has felt...

too slow: I feel less experienced than my peers, or like I want things to move faster or happen more often than they do.

just right: I feel average in relation to my peers (or don't care), and my sex life has felt like the right pace for me.

too fast: I feel more experienced than my peers, or like it's all been too much for me, too soon.