Imagine you're a 14 year old girl, and the school security guard asks you that question. This happened to Samantha, and the people at Scarleteen discuss her story, and the cultural attitudes toward menstruation.
"The Question"Do you fear that either you or your partner's labia are abnormal, either because they seem too big, asymmetrical, darker than what you would consider normal? You're not alone: here is a thread entirely devoted to this subject. You'll find out that labia come in many shapes, size and colors, all of which are totally normal.
Labia minoraOne of our most popular threads, I Love My Breasts, Yes I Do, I Love My Breasts, How About You?, now has it's vulval match in this thread. Come talk with our users about what you love about your vulva, celebrate its uniqueness, and share different pet names you've given to your vulva. Forget about size, shape, and color worries and realize that each and every vulva is special and beautiful in its own way.
i love my vagina, yes i do. i love my vagina, how about you?Do you feel like young women -- including yourself -- are really allowed and encouraged to say a big, resounding yes to sex, and not just in certain conditions? Our users discuss this very interesting question.
Do good girls say yes?Our users share moments when they've felt great about their body image. You might be surprised to see what made them feel so good...
Best Body Image MomentsYou're a girl thinking about having intercourse but you are worried about pain. Read about other user's first time experiences here, and you'll see that first time sex often isn't a pain, and can be a positive experience.
Losing virginity- does it hurt that bad?What do you think of the over-sexation of products aimed towards our nation's girls? - Lauren.
Bratz and BarbieWhat makes you give it 110%? What makes you get off to couch to do something active? Our users share their motivations.
MotivationAre you dealing with menstrual pain and discomfort? Looking for an alternative to hormonal birth control or mega-doses of Ibuprofen and the lot? This thread is for all girls and women who swim against the tide while going with the flow. It's a lot easier than you think and definitely worth checking out, regardless if your style is more granola or glam.
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