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Jane66
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This is my first post and i have a question. I have been having feelings for my best friend and i don't know what to do? We have expiremented with each other a few years ago and now i want to start again with her. Should i be having these kinds of feelings, could it ruin our friendship? why do i think about her in that way?
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Rikkus_lil_sister
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Hi. I'm having the same problems as you. You might be like me, and just want to experiment on having a relationship with another girl. However, you might be genuinely bisexual. This is not a bad thing, don't be ashamed of it. My friend, who is bi, says it is not that you are strange, it is just that you are not picky with who you date. Anyway, it could ruin your friendship if she does not feel the same way. You should approach her with the subject gently, so not to scare her away. Basically explain how you feel about her.
Good Luck!

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logic_grrl
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My friend, who is bi, says it is not that you are strange, it is just that you are not picky with who you date.

Well, bisexuals can be just as "picky" as anyone else - I'm guessing that your friend meant something more like bisexuals aren't picky about gender when it comes to who they date [Smile] .

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Jane66
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thanks for your replys. I really have stronge feelings about her but i would hate to lose her as a friend. I don't know whether these feelings are really directed at her or just that they are sexual only and its that,that i crave. I have had a few encounters in my life but am still a virgin.

I think that when we ended up together last time it was by accident and i think that a lot of girls my try things out when they are young.

I definatly couldn't bare it for her to tell all my friends at school if i did say anything, i have been bullied before and i could not face it all again.

Am i alone in this or do you think it does happen a lot. At my age do i really know my own mind, i think i do but i am confused about so many things!

God i sound like a real sad case.... sorry

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