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daywalker
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im 13 iv never had a boyfriend. i often theink a lot about sex and talk about it a lot to is this a normal thing?
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alaska
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Yup, it's perfectly normal that you're 13 and have never had a boyfriend (or girlfriend!). People start having boy- or girlfriends (or both) whenever they're ready, and there's no point in stressing yourself about not having started that yet, even when people in your peer group are already having boy- or girlfriends.

Thinking about sex and talking about it a lot is perfectly normal, as well.

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Beppie
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That pretty much describes me exactly when I was 13. [Smile] You sound totally healthy and normal.
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Miss_Mary-Ann
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I had that same problem at 13 years old, theres no need to worry here at all, considering it's compleatly and utterly normal to be going through this.

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Initreece
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This is perfectly normal, its part of growing up thinking about sex and you dont want a boyfriend unless you feel emotionally ready for one.

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Promises123
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you have no need to worry here hun [Smile]

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