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Is there help for people who want sex really bad but who arent ready for it. Like if you masturbate alot it helps but is there another way if you get turned on easily, I dont want to do something stupid and my parents have raised me that sex is better later in life.

I have read in seventeen or cosomgirl where alot of girls look at porn to help out but what does that exactly do? Is that a good way to help, I have read online where girls do seem to do that alot.

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Generally, porn is going to increase your sexual arousal - that's mostly why people look at it, as an aid to masturbation.

Honestly, masturbation is going to be your best bet to satisfy your sexual needs.

But you can also focus on finding distractions and other ways to burn up "excess energy", whether that's exercise, hobbies, or whatever.

And good for you for wanting to wait until you're ready for sex with a partner.

"Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it." - the Talmud

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Sometimes if I look up porn online, I get something I REALLY didn't want to see. That clears things up right quick!

Also, according to this lovely inventor-man about 100 years ago or so, try eating some Graham crackers.

Yeah, right.

Seriously, though. Nothing wrong with a bit of wanking. There's nothing to regret--it's not dirty, and you can't catch STIs or get pregnant by yourself. Just remember to wash your hands before and after and keep your fingernails short.

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