Ok tonight i had been drinking a bit and i was kissing this guy... everything and before we kissed he was feeling me up when i didnt want to...like touching me all over...and i really didnt want to and now im really depressed and regretting it...i think i was unfairly taken advantage of...can anyone suggest anything to help me not feel so depressed?
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Well, here's the thing: getting drunk, especially in sexual situations or around people you don't know are very trustworthy OR with whom you can't clearly say things like, "No, I don't want to go that far," is a recipe for this sort of scenario and feeling.
If he was drinking, you were drinking, if you didn't communicate what you did and didn't want, it's less you being taken advnatage of than it is simply poor judgment, which alcohl is ace at inducing.
So, the simplest way to feel better right now is likely just time AND making a choice right now not to put yourself in that situation again, by both NOT drinking until you're legal to do so, and not drinking so much even when you are that you land yourself in situations like this.
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