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untamedpannies
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Is it possible to be so tight that you can't ever have sex? if so, how can i do it because i;ve tried and nothing works
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Heather
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In women without imperforate hymens, or who don't have a condtion like vaginisums, the vaginal canal and opening can never be 'too tight" when a woman is relaxed, aroused and properly lubricated.

No sort of sex permanently stretches the vaginal canal or opening.

If you have menstrual flow, you don't have an imperforate hymen. If when you masturbate, you can insert a finger or two into your vaginal canal, you likely don't have vaginismus either (and your gynecologist can also confirm that -- if you're sexually active and not seeing one each year, get smart and start doing so). You can use a hand mirror to see if you might have a partial hymen which is blocking or bifurcating a portion of your vaginal opening, as that's also a possibility.

But if none of those things are so, chances are when you've attempted penetration, you were not relaxed and/or already aroused enough from other sexual activities or have not been using extra lubricant when you need it.


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