Im really stuck on the sitch with my parents...I know they love each other but I think that they are both on the verge of divorce! Me and my dad arn't as close as me and my mum but lately he has been confinding in me for help. He always tells me things like how he feels and how he thinks that their marrige is falling and that he has been seeing a counsellor and stuff like this and that he is scared to leave my mum because she is bipolar he she would become lost( me and him both no this would happen)..and that he was so confused and didn't know what to do and this other stuff..I have never had my dad talk to me like this before and I like that fact that he is coming to me for help and that he thinks Im the one in the family with the best grip of reality..but this is hard for me. I mean I don't mind listening because i Know what has been happing for along time it's just hard because my mum comes to me for advice to but it's getting so hard to deal with hearing there sides with eachother and against eachother gets really stressful and my sis is freaking out! what should I do with all this? I mean should I sit them down and get them to tell eachother what they tell to me? im struggling plz help me thanks kandie
First off hun,I want to say that I am so sorry..At least they are confiding in you..Talk to them..Try to get them to tell each other how they feel and everything they have told you..You said that your father is in counseling? If so try to get your mom in to couseling..Sometimes that helps marriages.. I hope I have helped.. A_K Posts: 52 | From: United States | Registered: Apr 2002
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