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eryn_smiles
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For anyone who considers themselves to be a feminist (and that includes the guys out there), how would you finish this sentence? What has lead to you identifying this way? Remember, "the personal is political"!

I'll add my own answer soon, but suffice to say, this has felt particularly relevant to me lately. Or maybe I'm finally opening my eyes to what was there all along.

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...no one should have rights or privileges at the expense of someone else; no one is truly equal or can truly be as equals without gender equality, and everyone -- female, male, or whatever one's gender identity is -- benefits from equality.

Because women are no less human or whole than men, and should be entitled to every right and liberty men have.

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For me, in a lot of ways, it's like that T-shirt slogan: "If you're not outraged, you're not paying attention".

In so many ways, women are still held back, and as long as that's the case, I will be a feminist.

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because while equality is a standard that is very hard to live up to it is worth fighting for and no individual should lack rights or privileges whether he/she is male, female, man, woman, or identify their sex and/or gender in a way different from the (societal) norm.

I also identify as feminist because I feel like it is a choice of label that is often rejected by many women for fear of stigmatization or being labeled as a man-hater. Well I'm here to say (and prove) that hate for any individual is not what defines a feminist and it is possible to be critical of an established system (perhaps patriarchy :-) without hating the people that are part of it (sometimes unknowingly due to lack of awareness in our cultures).

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...every one should have an equal rights and not be discriminated against, especially for things that we cannot (nor should we) change. Our society has many flaws, however I mean in no way to say it is all bad, and prejudice is one of the flaws. Many (within society) judge based on gender, race, sexual orientation, appearance, job, education, social status etc. I am against all forms of prejudice, including that towards women, so I consider myself a feminist.

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.. because the ultimate tool for the continued proliferation of patriarchy is to "relax" and carry on like the work has already been done.
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my feminism encourages me to become aware of interlocking systems of oppression, and of the ways in which I can hold both oppression and privilege in my brown, middle-class body. Nothing is simple, binary, or black-and-white; I don't believe in a feminism that is framed as being just for women, because too often that implicitly means "just for certain (white, heterosexual, able-bodied, middle-class) women." Instead, my feminism strives to recognize the way power is wielded in society... who is given the authority to speak, and for whom? I believe in coalition-building and introspection, and I don't want to be part of any feminist movement that doesn't respect my complexity or my contradictions.

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... because I want to help achieve a place in this culture where women are not raped, or laughed at, or interrupted because society deems us as lesser human beings.

... because I never again want to have a conversation with a man about how gender and sexual inequality does not exist. *Ignorance is not an excuse*

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...because my life has been full of domestic violence against women and children and I'm sick of people pretending it doesn't happen anymore.

...because I needed to find my own voice.

...because I hear sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic etc. jokes and comments everyday and I can only imagine what it must feel like to be the butt of every joke. I want to help to erase that hate and negativity.

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(Just have to say that you all are such an awesome bunch of badasses. You make someone getting older and passing some torches feel mighty psyched to do so. [Smile] )

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Great posts everyone!

...because I came across a couple of teenaged women who were raped by 'elders' in their community and then forced to marry their rapists. One bore 3 children to her rapist between the ages of 16 and 19. In New Zealand. In my city. In 2009. She had no-one to tell, nowhere to go. She and her 'husband' could have been deported together back to their home country for her disclosure. And that is heartbreakingly unacceptable to me. It will always be unacceptable to me, long after this particular woman is free of him.

In the past, I felt like a feminist but was too scared/shy to call myself one. I refuse to be scared anymore. I refuse to hear "cultural sensitivity" as an excuse to condone coercion, abuse, rape and violence against women. Who will speak up, if not us?

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quote:
In the past, I felt like a feminist but was too scared/shy to call myself one. I refuse to be scared anymore. I refuse to hear "cultural sensitivity" as an excuse to condone coercion, abuse, rape and violence against women. Who will speak up, if not us?
That's a strong, powerful statement you've got yourself there, eryn. [Smile]

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... because I've spent WAY to many years watching my dad do little to nothing around the house, while my mom works 40 hours a week plus, and is still responsible for all the housework and making sure the kids have done everything they need to do, just because "Cleaning house and raising children is women's work".
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...because I need to be. Gender/sex based oppression is SO real and prevelent across the world - until this ceases to be an issue, there need to be people who identify as feminist.

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Because I had an overwhelming desire to make out with a boy when I was in middle school, but that desire was only acknowledged in boys and not in girls. And I resented that. Because I've wanted sex with men who didn't want sex with me and I could have brushed it off were it not for pervasive gender stereotypes that had me questioning my worth as a woman. Because outside my personal bubble, stuff goes on that makes my personal problems seem very petty indeed - women are being BEATEN by lovers and boyfriends and husbands, female soldiers are twice-damned because only male soldiers get any glory to go along with the horrors they go through, because women only make 75 cents to men's dollars. Etc.

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... because all people deserve to be equal.

... because all people deserve to be safe.

... specifically, because I became aware of the situation of human trafficking and I cannot be the kind of person to see something so wrong and let it go.

... because I believe that any one person may change the world if they try hard enough: and that changing one person's world is better than changing none.

... because I'm sick of being told I'm a slut because I have big boobs and am blond.

... because no one makes enough of a "big deal" out of the harassment, abuse and assault one third of all women go through.

I'm not going to lie, I hesitate a bit to label myself as a feminist. I am by no means radical. I'm a conservative, non-denominational Christian who wants to have children, who wants to live at home and not have a career, who loves to cook and clean, who is only barely pro-choice (I believe that a fetus is a baby and a life, but I don't believe it's my right to tell some one what to do with their body). I think the word "feminist" needs to be redefined to include people like me as well (which I know a lot of people are trying to do), and move away from the man-hating, radical atheist only, non-shaving sort of picture, and include anyone who wants equal rights.

I had this talk with my dad the other day. By the end, he said he now considers himself a feminist. I think he was just saying it to support me, but I'm proud of him anyway.

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Just FYI?

quote:
. I think the word "feminist" needs to be redefined to include people like me as well (which I know a lot of people are trying to do), and move away from the man-hating, radical atheist only, non-shaving sort of picture, and include anyone who wants equal rights.
You know that picture is how OTHER people have presented feminism, not how most feminists have, right? In other words, that's a stereotype and bias primarily created by people against feminism to try and discount it as a movement.

Mind, some of us don't shave or are atheist (I don't think I have ever met a "man-hating" feminist ever: the women I've met who earnestly hate men rarely seem to be feminist at all, they just seem to be heterosexual and the hatred isn't political at all, but very personal), but a) that's hardly a rule and b) that's also not always even about our feminism.

Critiques in feminist theory about women staying home and child-rearing, or cooking and cleaning, for the record, were not critiques of women who want to do those things, have free choices about them and choose to do them. Rather, they were critiques of a system and culture which insisted women MUST do those things (including as part and parcel of being "good women"), whether they wanted to or not; that it was women's job and duty because of being women to do those things for everyone else. If you were in that position yourself, you'd probably not like them or the idea of them as much, either: a lot of women didn't, which shouldn't come as a surprise.

How familiar are you with feminist theory? For instance, on that topic, have you ever read any Betty Freidan, who was the second-wave feminist writing expressly to women who in that system? What about any Elizabeth Cady Stanton from the first wave? She addressed that a lot, too. If you haven't, reading them might help you get a better idea of what was being critiqued and understanding that no one was excluding or critiquing women who simply liked those things for themselves.

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I am a feminist, and I have met women who identify as feminists who display attitudes I can only describe as man-hating, I have seen way too many threads in which small penis jokes are made (as cruel as making jokes about women's breasts, vulvas, labia or vaginas), or in which many of the comments suggest that if a man is genuinely nice he will find it easy to find a sexual partner (oh please, women can be shallow just as men can and the various circumstances of life can make finding a partner difficult for someone of any gender), or in which men who are unhappy with being circumcised are told to man up and that they think the whole world revolves around/are obsessed with their penis or must be men's rights activists (this kind of attitude made me feel bad about my own fear of being genitally cut and the way it dominated my brain sometimes because hey, I wouldn't want to be some sort of sex obsessed perv would I?). I don't think these attitudes are feminist, but I have met those who call themselves feminists who think this way, I have also met feminists who would constantly ignore the difficulties of being disabled and that no matter how many times you call somebody a giant baby, not everybody was raised with life skills or has a brain that's good at organising, and sometimes the mental anguish someone's experiencing takes over from their ability to get things done, and then sometimes, there are the "feminists" who clearly really do hate sex, not rape, not that porn which is exploitative and objectifying, not trafficking, but sexuality, sex, masturbation, orgasm, viewing it as somewhere between a trivial, unimportant distraction and an innately problematic/sinful thing and I just want to tell all those people to shut up because they're ruining it for everyone who does actually care about equality and rights.

Why am I a feminist? Because nobody should be discriminated against or regarded with prejudice because of their gender, biological sex, weight, marital status, race, nationality, sexual orientation, whatever disabilities or neuroatypicalities they do or do not have or their age, because it's not right to force religion on anyone and everyone has a right to a comprehensive evidence based education, because everyone has a right to ownership of their own body and sexuality and to freedom from torture, and those rights and the right to food, clean water, shelter and medical care are more important than money. Because I want people to feel good about their bodies instead of ashamed of them. The basic point being that the whole of my politics easily incorporates feminist principles.

On a more personal level, because my mom never got to enjoy herself growing up because she was terrified of being pregnant and being rejected by her adoptive family and society the way her own biological mother was, because one of my friends was (and possibly still is) in an abusive relationship, without the confidence to leave a man who treats her badly, because I'm still trying to drop all the shame I have around my sexuality and body and my weight and the way I felt pathologised sexually and emotionally because of my aspergers and ADHD and have only recently started to see myself as beautiful, because I never want to get pregnant and am still trying to stop feeling guilty about that, because my wonderful boyfriend, who has utterly accepted my orientation and the way I look, was worried about the size of his penis before he showed it to me, because virtually all of the around a decade or more older than me LGBTQ people I know had very little or no support growing up, because I can still see racism and xenophobia around me and wonder at the impact it must be having on all the people I know who are members of a racial minority and/or immigrants. There's more reasons, but those are the ones that come to mind now.

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Jill: can I ask in what feminist communities you have read these things (online, I presume)? Or is this in-person?

Though I have to say, I do think we have to really think about what we mean if and when we say "man-hating." (Not a term I use, honestly.) I don't agree that saying a guy is nice so will find it easy to find a partner is misandrist, and am not sure I understand why it would be. I agree with you that small penis jokes could certainly be filed under misandry. Being a dope about men who are upset about ciscumcision? Meh. Not cool, but man-hating?

I think when it comes to misandry, it's important to evaluate it the same way we evaluate misogyny, and on the same grading curve, save that we need to remember what gender (when we're only talking about gender, and not other classifications) has the power in the world. For example, an easy example of misogyny is the statement, notion or policymaking that rape isn't a violence or crime because women exist to serve male sexual needs.

I also think...well, I don't know about all of your experiences, but online life and politics is just not a sound representation of people overall in my experience or my book. I don't mean to throw a pile of years at you in a snippy way at all, but having been around many diverse feminisms and feminists, in many different areas, for as far back as I can remember, my very wide experience has been that on the whole, feminists are not "man-hating" nor do we/they "hate sex." By all means, some feminists are arses, just like some people of every stripe are. Too, some people's general attitudes will override their feminism sometimes, and exist in spite of their feminism, not because of it.

But I find it rare, and I would really encourage anyone to think about what suggesting it's pervasive -- something that hasn't been the experience of most women with decades of really being in a lot of feminist environments -- enables, and where that suggestion usually tends to come from, which isn't the actual experience that those things are pervasive.

I'd really love to see this thread go back to the positive intention in the initial post.

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I'm going to talk about my feelings in another thread, but I apologise if I gave the impression I think a lot of feminists are like this, I'm just saying that some feminists are, like some people who fall into whatever category are. I don't think that these attitudes are what feminism is about though, I think it's an important movement that's done a lot of important things and I continue to support it and identify as one myself. If you want to you can edit my post and take out the bit that you think detracts from the thread, I'm sorry.

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No worries, Jill, it's okay. [Smile]

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...because I want to be sexual but society tells me that the only way I'm allowed to express that is by looking sexy, but not allowed to expect my male partners to be sexy for me and now allowed to not be sexy, and that I'm expected to replace "sexual" with "sexy."
That's how I started identifying as a feminist, anyway.

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i identify myself as a feminist because i do not and cannot live in a vacuum. I cannot ignore the realities that people live and suffer in and don't want to ignore them. I want to create positive change and i don't think i do that without the values represented under the term "feminisms".
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I want to share with you all, an inspiring young feminist campaign..it's called THE GIRL EFFECT.

http://www.girleffect.org/learn/the-big-picture/the-girl-effect-ticking-clock?sms_ss=facebook

It doesn't take much to make a big big difference for a girl, somewhere in the world.

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...because every single person in the world, whether your rich or poor, gay or straight, black or white, male or female, from our country or not, es equal. We are all people. Every human should be treated the same until they give you a reason not to.

I am NOT a feminist in that I think women are better than men, which is what a lot of people think when they hear the word 'feminist.' I use that term very little because of that, and because it implies I only care about the equality between genders, which is not the case. I care about the equality of every living person on Earth. Every one has the same rights, or at least every one should.

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... words have definitions.

I am a person who believes that all people deserve equal standing before the law, and equal respect as human beings.

Feminist theory is a subset of that, and as a result, I fit the definition.

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... because I am a libertarian and against all forms of authority, obviously including male authority over women.

... because I hate being pressured to act like a macho man.

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quote:
Originally posted by EliotDorian:
...because I want to be sexual but society tells me that the only way I'm allowed to express that is by looking sexy, but not allowed to expect my male partners to be sexy for me and now allowed to not be sexy, and that I'm expected to replace "sexual" with "sexy."
That's how I started identifying as a feminist, anyway.

Exactly the same as me! First class post, dame [Smile]

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because I support the social, economic and political equality of males and females.

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...because I was sexually harrassed as a child by a classmate at school, and I never want to be voiceless again. I never want another woman to be taken advantage of and scarred, either mentally, emotionally, or physically.

...because I view everyone on this planet as equals, and I think that everyone should have the same rights despite sexual orientation, gender, social standing, religion, race, skin color, appearance, or anything else.

...because even though women are technically "equal" to men in America, we're still not seen to be on the same playing field as men a lot of the time. We can and will run just as far, aim just as high, score just as well, be just as sexual as men.

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...because it's just common sense, really.

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Hmm if only it were common sense to everyone [Smile] .

...because it makes me sad and angry that my female colleagues and I live with a real fear of violence. That we can't even walk to our cars alone because of continued muggings and rapes in our area. As women, we deserve to feel safe. Everyday. Everywhere.

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Stephanie_1
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Everyone should have the RIGHT to be equal, feel safe, be who they are without being "less" than someone else for a look or basic physical construction, have the right to think for themselves and be RESPECTED for those thoughts. Because there isn't a "weaker" gender, everyone has PERSONAL strengths and those help to form the society as a whole. Because every person should have the chance to reach their full potential, regardless of how they look on the outside.

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...because gender roles and expectations limit everyone and stops everyone from fully being their own selves and living happy lives.

Similarly, because we live in a culture that does not embrace everyone for who they are, or view every human being as equals.

Because we still live in a world where women are unsafe every day of their lives simply because they are women.

Because there are still idiot "scientists" out there constantly trying to prove how women are "biologically" weaker in every way. And because there are still plenty of people who believe them.

Because people will always find some reason to descriminate and hate someone else, be it for their sex, gender expression or identity, orientation, race, class, sexual or reproductive decisions, or all of the above.

And because despite all of this, I still hear that there is "no need" for feminism.

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I can not call my self a feminist.. Call me what you like, but I belive that ALL people should be equal. I dont think that any one deserves "EXTRA" rights, privlage or treatment.

Shivalry was somthing that died with feminism. I treat women with respect because I see them as I see my self. A person like any other.

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