if i may relate something that happened at my high school...
about 2 years ago, two very popular male teachers were arrested after a young female student came forward claiming that they were engaging in unlawful sexual activity with her and some mebers of the girls' softball team.
after charges were filed and the case made headlines in the local news, other women began to come forward attesting that they, too, had sexual relationships with these two teachers. Some of the women were approaching 30, which goes to show how long this had been going on.
I remember both teachers. I never had any classes with them because they didn't teach the honors classes, and i never played softball (i can't throw a ball to save my life). but everybody knew everybody else at my school, and they were some of the most charismatic teachers on campus. They were in their late 30s and still quite handsome. But they abused their power and finally had to pay the consequences. they're both serving prison terms now.
The point is? If you feel strong enough to do it, come forward. If you can save other children from being hurt by this man, then it was worth the effort. If you speak out, then just you wait 'cause other girls will, too.
more surly than girly...