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Black Kitten
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I was 17. No regrets ever

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TheOctopus
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First kiss: 12...first like REAL kiss about 14.
Manual: Umm...Wednesday night?
Oral: never
Intercourse: not yet

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First kiss: 14
Manual: 14
Oral: 14
Intercourse: 15

All with the same bf on and off- I don't think time and age really matters but sometimes being young can make everyoe judge you and it can hurt.

You have to be prepared to make decisions and stick to them and choose not to live with regrets by making sure to make a decision you want to make [Smile]

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Jill2000Plus
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I haven't had any kind of partnered sexual activity (well I did play I'll show you mine if you show me yours with this boy my own age when I was six, which was nice, though more curiosity sating than arousing), and I'm happy with that, if I find somebody I like it could be super fun, but I'm happy enjoying my own body, and anyone who I do anything sexual with will have to treat me well and not pressure me into doing anything I don't want to do.

I'll admit to being rather curious about oral. Recieving and giving.

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Kiss- 12 with my first "boyfriend" lol
Manual/Oral- 15 w/ bf of about 6 months
Intercourse- same bf 2 weeks before our one year.

still going out with him 20 months later... no regrets [Smile]

We waited 6 months after we were ready, because we wanted to wait to about one year to further show our commitment. [Smile] It also helped because by that time we had talked about the pros and cons enough to where I wasn't paranoid about getting pregnant anymore; I know we're being responsible.

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Kiss - 15 first with ex boyfriend
Manual - 15 first with ex boyfriend ( regret )
Sex - 16 first ;boy friend of 11 mnths (no regrets)

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Typical Young and Dumb Teenager?
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Well, I know this post is really old, but what not?

First-
boyfriend: 14
kiss: 14
makeout: 14
manual: 14
oral: 15
intercourse: 15
break up: 15
.. I regret the fact that I allowed myself to get hurt more than the stuff we did.

[ 02-11-2009, 06:15 PM: Message edited by: Typical Young and Dumb Teenager? ]

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Yea me to i havent had any kind of sexual partner as well.

I have been sexualy active since around the age of 9 or 10.

I am very curiouse about how it must be like to have sex though (still a virgin lol) either giving/recieving oral, making out, or fingering.

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Kiss: 5, with my preschool boyfriend. Hah.
Makeout: 15 with my ex-girlfriend.
Manual: 15, also with my ex-girlfriend.
Oral: 15, with a friend.
Intercourse: 16, with a guy I had met 11 days before.
Luckily, I don't regret anything. I'm happy about that.

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Kiss: hahah ah prep in front of the whole class, so 5
Makeout: year 8, sooo... 14
Manual: 15 with my current girlfriend
Oral: 15, again with my current girlfriend
Intercourse: 15, a few days ago, so 4 months 2 weeks [Smile] with the best girlfriend in the world

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Reaqading some of these makes me feel a little rushed. But I think it's your descision, and it depends on the person.
For me..
Kiss: Like, at 5 with my primary school "boyfriend". [Razz]
First "Make Out": 12 -- and it was teriible! [Big Grin]
First Good "Make Out": 13 [Razz] Different person [Razz]

Manual: 15
Oral: 15
Intercourse: 15

And i lost my virginity at 15 too. I'd been dating the boy for three months, which may seem a little short for some. But we talked it through and we were both comfortable and rather eager about it. [Big Grin] He's 16 so he's legal I suppose. [Razz]
Definitely no regrets.
He is a giver and I was a little worried about giving him manual and oral, so I was recieving a lot before I decided to overcome my fear of the penis. Since then, it's been pretty dang awesome.

Definitely no regrets. [Smile]

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I had my first boyfriend at sixteen, along with my first kiss.

I'm eighteen now and my current boyfriend has been my first manual stimulation and oral [Smile] We've talked about intercourse and we're waiting until the time is right, but we both feel very comfortable with the possibility.

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MudPuppy
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My first kiss was when I was 13 with a boy that I realised I didn't like after only going out with him for a few days (I always feel a bit mean about that, it wasn't realy his fault I didn't like him XD). I'm 15 now, the furthest I've gone was a few days ago when my girlfriend and I were kissing and she put her hand up my top and stuff. [Smile] I don't have any huge regrets, if I could change the past I probably wouldn't go out with that boy but it was a life experience anyway.

[ 06-19-2009, 02:23 PM: Message edited by: AngelFromMyNightmare ]

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meladie
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boyfriend: 17
kiss: 17
manual: 19
oral: 19
intercourse: 19

i did nothing but kissing/making out until my most recent boyfriend...we've been together going on two years. =)

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lollipopgurl
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Well i had my 1st kiss when i was about 11 then oral and mannual when i was 15 im 16 now n havent yet had full intercorse but me n my bf have come close n are both ready so i think it will happen soon [Smile] [Smile]

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IslaSingaza
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In chronological order (also, I'd guess, order of frequency):
Masturbation: honestly do not remember, I think I was about 13. And I can't remember my first orgasm, although I was probably about 15. Slow learner, obviously...
First kiss: 19
Manual sex (for both of us): 19
Fellatio: 19
(Receptive) cunnilingus: 19
All the 19s are with the same person, over about five months. He's also pretty much the first boy I held hands with. I very much do not want him to be the only sexual partner I ever have (he's not planning on sticking with me forever either). Not a believer in the One: I've been in love before and I'll be in love again. I am very glad I held out for someone I found genuinely hugely attractive and really did want to do all these things with, if very annoyed that magical thing reciprocation didn't bother turning up until I was 19.

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Thehiddenone
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First-
boyfriend: 10
kiss: 11
makeout: 11
manual: 14
oral: 14
intercourse: 14
break up: 10

Haha most of the big things were quite recient [Smile] alothough im 15 now

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panique
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When I was 5 I pecked my closest guy friend. [Razz]

After the initial kiddy pecking stages, I didn't even kiss anyone again until I was 17. My boyfriend lives across the country and it was when I went to meet him for the first time. [Smile] I've been back a few times since. Manual sex, same, 17 - much later on though. Everything else, 18.

I wasn't interested in anything sexual at all, really, until after I met my boyfriend and we started talking and experimenting. Before that the whole idea scared me. The fact that being with him made me change my mind and want different things makes me really happy that I found him and that I got to do all that stuff with him. You know?

[ 10-29-2009, 11:18 AM: Message edited by: panique ]

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Well I kissed some boys in primary school! On the cheek. I apparently cornered one of them in year three and kissed his cheek forcefully, but I don't remember that [Razz]

I didn't see anyone in a serious way until I was sixteen, and I first kissed someone properly then. I did manual and oral sex shortly after, and attempted vaginal intercourse just after that. So, 16 for almost everything. Busy year!

That relationship wasn't the most positive sexual experience. It certainly wasn't harrowing, don't get me wrong, it allowed me to familiarize myself with sex and I gained a lot of confidence, but we didn't actually like each other that much and it was with him that I found out about my vaginismus.

I'm only just experimenting with anal penetration now (I'm 18).

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I was reading through this, oh well, why not! ^_^ (Since it does seem to be active)

Kiss:17

^_^

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I guess this is active enough since I saw it on the first page plus it's an interesting list of statistics so here goes:

First kiss: 14

The rest of my firsts are with my first and current boyfriend of 3 years;

First manual + oral: 15
Intercourse: 16

At the time we were together for 9 months and though all of our friends said it was way too early, we had discussed it and knew we had both reached maximum readiness; that is to say, we would be as ready at that point as when we were 18 or 20 or 25. Plus, we had a loving and healthy relationship (have, I should say) as a base.

No regrets, whatsoever.

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Manual-12
Oral-12
Makeout-15
Kiss-15
Intercourse(both types)-15
Boyfriend-15

[ 12-26-2009, 11:24 PM: Message edited by: bookwormhottie ]

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Masturbation- 14 (although I still have yet to get good at it and may have tried before that age)

I haven't really done anything else. The closest I have come to a girlfriend or boyfriend is getting asked out. I did, sort of, kiss a friend. It was more of a peck on the lips, we were probably only 10 or 11, my sister was watching and it wasn't at all sexual, so it doesn't really count.

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Abbey Dawn
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and just two days ago we had sex.
Before that we just maked out. The only reason I did not have sex with him before that was because I was not on the pill.

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First kiss - 15
Manual - 15
Oral -16-17 (this was all with my high school boyfriend; he was a nice guy, but I'm so glad we didn't go any farther)
First Intercourse - 19 - No regrets!

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Jill2000Plus
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First Kiss - 21
Dry Humping with clothes on- 21
Breast touching/kissing/other stimulation - 21
Manual with clothes on - 21

My boyfriend and I are taking things slowly so that's the list of stuff so far. I'm currently celebrating because I no longer have candida/thrush/yeast infection and he knows too so maybe we'll do more stuff since we don't have to worry about that anymore.

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Kiss/"Make-out": 16
Phone Sex: 16
Manual (both giving and receiving):16
Oral (both giving and receiving): 16
Intercourse: 17 (almost 18), after a year of dating with first boyfriend.

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Kiss: 12
Snog: 13
Manual/Oral: 15
Intercourse: not yet.

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CallMeAdrian
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I am not yet actually sexually active. . .
I've only just started masterbating a few weeks ago. I am currently 18 (and a half)
I've never even kissed anyone before. . . [Frown]

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All of my sexual activity that wasn't solo was when I was out of high school.

First kiss: 18 (also when I had my first bf)

Manual:18

Oral: 18 or 19 (I say "or" because I was 19 when I really count that it happened. Before when I was 18, it was more like "foreplay" like I kissed him on his penis, but that was pretty much it). Sorry to be graphic, just trying to be honest.

Sex: 19 (I have a lot of regrets due to it not being a choice and my bf at the time taking advantage of me while I was drunk)

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First everything at 18, although I suppose that could vary VERY greatly depending on your definition of everything.

Lets just say, kissing through intercourse.

I don't regret anything, but I'm glad it came the way it did, and no sooner. Particularly the more sexual side of things, I'm pretty sure I could have handled kissing or making out at a younger age, but I feel fairly sure that the younger and less mature me would have made an *** of himself at some point along the baseball analogy.

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Solo sex: 11-12
First kiss: 19
Manual: 19
Dry sex: 19
Oral: 19
Intercourse: Not planning on it yet.
No regrets about anything.

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First kiss: 16
Manual: 17
Oral: 17

Intercourse: Hitting a few speed bumps, so not planning on it as of now [Smile]

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Hm, why not? XD

all of this is with my current, and first, boyfriend of almost 8 months [Smile]

First kiss: 15
Make out: 15
dry sex: 15
manual sex (giving and recieving): 15
oral sex: not yet
intercourse: not yet, but maybe within the next couple months. I'm on birth control and we have condoms and lube, so we're mostly waiting for me to finish this first cycle of bc and for my house to ever be empty XD

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first kiss: 13
make out: 13
dry sex: 13

only 14 now so havent done the rest [Razz] but we're up for it [Wink]

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