Hi, I am in deep crises, i have 3 best frends and i love them really much, but somethings they did i didn't like and i was to scared to tell them that i didn't like it, so i asked my other friend to help me stand up, she did and my other 3 friends got into a fight with her for that( they didn't know that i asked her to do it) at the end my friends found out that she was helping me to stand up for my self and i didn't tell them anything about it while the fight was going on. they are really disapointed and i don't know what to do. i never ment to hurt anyone and specialy get them into a fight. I am afriad to lose tehm, plz tell me what to do Thank you really much
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Ok...there was a long sentence in that! (Puts brain into gear) You know, it's important that you can talk to friends if they do something to upset you, especially best friends. I think the moral of this story is to speak up for yourself. Can you really consider these people best friends if you can't commmunicate without using a middle man? When communication breaks down, people get the wrong end of the stick. If that's what happened here, just sit down with all the frineds who were involved and explaining exactly as you have here. Good luck.
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