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Theres this girl who started talking really mean about my friend on the bus one day, saying her eyes were crooked and she was trash, etc.

Anyway, my friend cried really bad about it and made her stop riding the school bus. This made me so angry.

I found out the girls screen name online who talked bad about my friend. I made up this guy screen name and talked really bad to her. Since I know what her name is and a little about her and her friends, I made it sound pretty believeable on the things I said to her(things like she wears too much eyemake up, which she does).

The next day she got on and said she was sorry and throughout the days of me being mean to her she kept asking my name and I would never tell her. I told her my name doesn't matter, and then she started saying she was going to church trying to be forgived for talking bad about people. I told her the only way to be forgived was to stop talking bad about others and she was like whatever.

Anyway, she made me feel bad because she brought God up and said I was going to hell and things like that. When it comes to God, I start shaking because I love him so much...but I didn't feel sorry for being mean to her because I felt I was giving her a dose of her own medicine.

Well, in conclusion, I would like to know if what I did was really wrong, if I should have never did it and if I will be forgived by God for doing this...

Please reply.

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It was wrong for her to say such things and it was equally wrong for you to have said such things. All of us at one time or another have felt so much anger that we go astray of what God wants us to do. The right thing to do would have been to tell her how much she hurt your friend and that her actions were not those of a Christian. Do not worry about seeking revenge for the Bible tells us that God will deal with such people when their time comes.

If you ask for forgiveness, then God will forgive you. You can always talk to Him and He will always be there for you. Remember how much He loves you and that He wants to forgive you. All you have to do is ask.

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life."

--John 3:16

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From a non religious perspective, what you guys did was equally wrong (wow Baptist!).

To make things right with this girl, confess to her, and apologize. But that doesn't mean she gets off scott-free. Just because she has begged forgiveness from god, doesn't mean everything alright. She should also apologize to your friend. And, if you want forgiveness from god, do the same-go to church, confession, whatever you can do until you feel better.

And next time, avoid people like her who piss you off altogether.

Sin by thy lips? Oh trespass sweetly urged, give me my sin again!

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I don't think it was really right, but sometimes you have have to do things like that to stop people from doing things like that.
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