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KittenGoddess
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*sigh* I'm nervous you guys. Really really nervous. So, in case you haven't been keeping up with the unfolding drama that is currently my life...my boyfriend is coming to visit me for the first time ever on Friday. I'm incredibly excited about seeing him, but I am totally freaking out at the same time. What if I don't like him? What if he doesn't like me? What if I throw up on his shoes? So many questions...

So anyway, it's only Wednesday, and I'm already freaking out...anybody got any tips on how to control the nerves?

~KittenGoddess

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ErinK
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Breathe in.

Now... breathe out.

Wasn't so hard, was it?

The first time I met my partner Allan, I don't think I slept the last two nights before. Same with my sweetie David. Oy. Nerve city.

I think what helps me is focusing on getting waht I need to do done before I see a partner (including preparing for their arrival) and letting myself express the happy and excited feelings that I'm having and also the fears to someone. Like us here at scarleteen.

Feel free to ICQ me.

Erin


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KittenGoddess
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Thanks Erin...I think I'm probably being entirely too silly about this. But sheesh, this is a huge step! lol, Being excited and terrified at the same time is an interesting experience. I'm so ready for this to happen...I think it's just the waiting that's making me nutty!

Oh, and you should authorize me, I never know when you're on ICQ!

~KittenGoddess


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*eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep*

You can do this, Kitto. 'tis a big step, yes, but you'll two will turn out just fine, I know it (I'm psychic, haven't you noticed!). You'll get through Thursday by getting the groceries (don't forget the bagels!), and a little bit of Class (to get that CS project as much out of the way as posible) and hoovering the carpet and getting out the good rug. Tonight, if desired, we'll chat and I'll keep you entertained and busy. Friday, you'll do the last bit of room tidying (clean sheets and all), won't eat from 2pm on (so you don't throw up), throughout the afternoon, you eeeep a little, at 5:30, you'll make your way to the airport (just so that you won't be late and have enough time to get really nervous looking at that arrivals board) - and ta-daaaaaa. There's your boy.

You can do this, girly. Definitely. Geez, I'm so excited for you, too!

*eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep*


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Lin
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Oh so will I sweetie. I will keep you entertained.

I think I'm quite good at that.

And how could he not like you sweetie? That is near impossible. Tsk.


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It's tomorrow then! Good luck!

I'll tell you how you'll feel, very nervous, you feel like you're gonna throw up, butterflies, and then you'll meet him, you'll still be a little nervous, then you'll start talking, you'll have lots to talk about, and then you'll wonder what you were so nervous about in the first place!

Then you'll tell us all about his visit!! I'm sooo excited for you!!

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Just remember, if you weren't nervous, you probably woudn't care. Nervousness is a good sign

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KittenGoddess
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Oh my gosh you guys, today is the big day! I'm so nervous...I threw up this morning already! (lol, it's good to be me, isn't it?) Everything is going to be fine though...just fine...
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Heather
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Hang in there girly!

And grab some ginger tea. Settles the butterflies.


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It'll be fine. Don't worry about it, that's all there is to it
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KittenGoddess
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*hugs* Thanks so much for all the support...I know that people do stuff like this everyday, and I shouldn't be freaking out about it, but it's still difficult to remain calm. I keep telling myself that it's going to be just fine. I just rather hope I don't throw up again...
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