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I am a very open sexul person. i love sex and i will continue to have sex. but i have never gotten kissed(ya know, with tounge) not that i havent had the offer, just that i havent let anyone kiss me. like i have said before i was raped when i was youger, so my vriginity was taking away from me, so all i have is my frist kiss to hold on to.and i am waiting for the right person to kiss me. does anyone eles have this problem>?

dont frown, u never know whos falling in love with ur smile~!~

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I had the similar problem of not being kissed, but not because I didn't let people kiss me I was really insecure about it, I felt really different then my friends, especially my best friend who goes around kissing everyone, heh. Then finally one of my coworkers did wasnt horrible, but it wasn't great. I think it wasn't so wonderful because I wasn't too ready for it at the time, and the attraction just wasn't there for me. My next kiss was much better, it just might be because I wanted it for about 3 months, and I finally got it...along with many kisses later, and a boyfriend lol.


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My girlfriend wouldn't kiss me for the longest time because she was to scared of getting way to connected to me and couldn't get out. So I waited. Waiting gets you alot in life, trust me. Now we are the bestest couple ever!! HEHE. If you don't feel comforatble with it then don't. Just wait until you are ready.


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Having you first "real" kiss is somewhat like your first time having sex. You want it to be with someone special, you want it to be special.

The problem is, is that sometimes your first time for kissing or sex isn't that great. It's awkward and your nervous, because your not sure if your doing it right, and you wondering what the other person is thinking.
I woudn't worry about it too much though, when the time is right, you'll have your first kiss, and you'll take it from there.

Brandy :)

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I just had my first kiss New Years Eve, and it wasn't that great, even though it was with my former crush and very good friend. I guess I'm saying that you want to wait until it's going to be good, not in the middle of a living room full of friends while the guy is drunk and slobbery.
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For me my first kiss was really akward. It wasn't that I didn't want to kiss him because I did but just like everything else, kissing takes practice. The second time (a couple of minutes later) was better and by the third we'd got it down pat. Everything takes practice, sex, kissing, swimming, etc., etc. I think that it's great that you're making a decision to wait to kiss someone till you're ready.
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