Me and my best friend share a vibrator, we both have sex with our boyfriends, and we don't ever do it in front of each other. Do you think this is wrong? we don't think so, but one of our other friends thinks we're lesbians now. That doesn't mean anything does it?
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For starters, you should never share your sex toys (especially things like vibrators, which cannot be bolied) with more than one sex partner, period. So, unless you two are your only sex partners, what you're doing is patently unsafe in terms of spreading sexual disease. Either flop a condom over your toys when you use them, or only use your own. End of lecture.
Do I think it is "wrong"? In what way (aside of health issues)?
bear in mind, here at Scarleteen we don't think any sexual orinetation or practice is worng unless it is dishonest, or unless it compromises the emotioanl or physical safety or sanity of another human being, or is done without consent.
Yeah~~ thats kinda like sharing a tooth brush or a razor that you shave with, plus its something private you use for your self. Its just not sanitary.
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Okay, considering that you are *both* having sex with your boyfriends, you definetly need to get your own vibrators or put condoms over it. And putting on condoms is good for practice anyway. Aside from the health reasons noted by Mz S, there's nothing really *wrong* with it. And it certainly doesn't make you lesbians. You're a lesbian because you're attracted to other girls either emotionally, physically, sexually, or in all three ways.
If you used the same spatula does that mean you like to cook your eggs the same way? No, you just use the same spatula
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Sharing is cool sometimes. I dont mind to share a room or my lunch and maybe even my Claire Forlani picture collection but my boyfriend I dont think so you guys are freaks.
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Doyouwrong, that kind of statement is totally and completely unacceptable here. Do it again and your posting privledges will go with you. If this is unclear, review the guidelines you agreed to when you registered. Name-calling here isn't okay.
In addition, while we also accept that it's fine here for some people to have relationships with multiple-partners, we're also really big on reading comprehension. The originbal poster stated she shared her vibrator, not her boyfriend.
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