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diego1399
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Hello i am 15 and my girlfriend and i sorta had dry sex. My pre-ejaculation might have touched her underwear and now im scared that she may get pregnant. I have read your articles but im still wondering if im not wearing any underwear and she is wearing underwear and my precum touches her underwear, can she get pregnant? Please reply soon because im really scared.
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Karybu
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Hi diego. When you say you've read our articles, are you including this one? Can I get pregnant, or get or pass on an STI from that? The section you're looking for is the dry sex one.

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diego1399
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Thank you so much for reassuring me. I was so scared and i really appreciate it. and you're sure that there is no risk at all?
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We're sure our information is correct, yes.

What do you think you need so that you don't feel scared like this in the future? As this scared you even after reading our information, do you think maybe you don't feel ready for this kind of sex yet?

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diego1399
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i think im not. I dont feel ready to risk having a baby. And thank you so much for the information. I'm not as worried now.
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Heather
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So, can you have a talk with your girlfriend about this, expressing to her that you need to slow things down?

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diego1399
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yes i did. and when the article refers to thin garment does that refer to the fabric or something else?
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Heather
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We've already made clear to you, by reading your specific situation, that this has not posed a risk. Repeating the answer or trying to pick it apart isn't a productive use of our time or yours.

If you're still feeling freaked, going over the same stuff again and again isn't going to change that. What's more likely to help you out is just to take care of yourself some extra, like you would with any other kind of stress you're under, and then just giving all of this time and making different choices moving forward you feel better about.

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diego1399
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thank you so much. I really appreciate this
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Sure thing. I hope you start feeling better soon. [Smile]

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diego1399
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Thank you very much.
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