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shirleyyx
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Please read all the details, I'm so scared that I may be pregnant. I need some professional advise. x

So my period started on 8th Mar and ended on 14/15th Mar.

Then on 17th Mar, my boyfriend came over and he masturbated but didnt cum before he put his fingers inside my vagina. I didnt aware if his fingers had precum when he put them inside, deep.

I dont have regular periods even though I have already had periods for like few years. My previous period ended on early Jan and eventually came again on 8th Mar again.

I used 28 cycles to count after, if my period is regular, my period would have come on 4th Apr. But started from 3rd Apr I had the brown discharge. My period didnt come on 4th April. On 8th Apr i took the first pregnancy test and came out negative. I took another on 15th Apr morning and still negative. The brown discharge never stops until few weeks later. i had some light pink discharge in the brown discharge and sometimes lil blood. After it stopped, I tested again on 6th May and still negative. No vomitting or extra tired but now I have sore breasts like during my period but there is no blood.

Am I pregnant?? I am rly worried bc I heard that precum can get a woman pregnant and I am already almost 2 months late. My boyfriend peed before masturbating at my house. Was 17th Mar my possibly ovulation day? Am I testing for pregnancy too early? Is it possible of me to be pregnant?

I am underweight (163cm, 90pounds) and have irregular period usually.

I would appreciate any answers that can help. Thank you so much x

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Sam W
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Hi shirley,

Can you please give this a read? I think it will answer your question about whether or not there was a risk of pregnancy from your activities:
http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000

Beyond that, you have had multiple negative pregnancy tests, which means you can assume you are not pregnant.

Have you checked in with healthcare provider lately about your period irregularity?

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shirleyyx
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Sam W,

I read that already and I am a lil relieved. But what if the amount of precum is pretty a lot?? I heard precum has sperm and it scares me. and my bf fingered me really deep that time for at least 2 minutes :/ Anyway thanks xx

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Redskies
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We take fluids into account when we say what activities do and do not have risks. If the amount of fluid made a difference, we would say [Smile]

Pre-ejaculate (precum) doesn't contain sperm itself, but it can pick up left-over sperm from the urethra in the penis.

It takes more than just the presence of ejaculate or pre-ejaculate to create a pregnancy. The process of reproduction is quite complex and needs certain conditions to make it possible. Have you seen our article here: Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide ? It might help you to understand why what you described to us doesn't have a pregnancy risk.

Like Sam, I'm also wondering if you've checked with a healthcare provider about the irregularity with your periods. Please know that we're not concerned about pregnancy, it's just routine good advice for someone to get checked if they're very irregular.

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shirleyyx
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okay. i understand the risks are low or even zero. but what about the brown discharge?? it lasted for almost a month and sometimes when i wiped it had pinkish or even redish discharge. i heard that is a pregnant sign?

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Redskies
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Brown or pinkish discharge lasting weeks can indicate an infection or other health issue, so again, we'd suggest seeing a healthcare provider to check it. Have you started getting reproductive healthcare, and do you know how to access it?

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shirleyyx
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I dont know tbh. in hk we dont learn about this kind of sex edcation.

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Might you be able to talk to your mother or another female relative to ask them how you can access reproductive health care? Alternatively, you can give your regular doctor a call and ask them if they can see you for your concern, or if they would need to refer you to someone else.

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shirleyyx
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Alright, I will later. Thanks for the opinion [Smile] My mom actually has irregular periods and also imbalance hormones or sth like that. So I think she will understand [Smile] x

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That sounds great! Glad we could help.

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The past 2 weeks me and my boyfriend have been doing stuff. During those 2 weeks we only did stuff 3 times. I would give him a hand job and he would have pre-cum. I couldn't really tell but he would like touch his penis then finger me a little but i couldn't tell if he had any precum on his fingers. But i also would dry hump him and stuff but I couldn't tell if he had pre-cum either. He would wash his hands before he fingered me. And when he chummed he made sure he was far away from my vagina. But i just really need help, I wanna know if that could be a risk of me being pregnant? And I ovulated one of the days where we did stuff and Im supposed to have my period on the 31st of May.
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Hey, taylorose, welcome to the boards. [Smile]

next time you make a post with your own topic, can you start your own thread? You do that by clicking "new topic" on the top right of any page on the boards. Thanks!

Per your question, you will find the answer to that here: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/54/t/000465.html

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shirleyyx
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So guys my period came, finally, yesterday. i think it is again my irregular period. Thank you for all your hel! Really do appreciate xx [Smile]

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