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Tony25
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Hello, i have a concern about pregnancy, so okay i ejaculated about 3 hours before i did anything and after i ejaculated i peed, also all my gf did was give me a bj for 10 seconds and then we stopped and talked for a minute or so then she got a shower because she just got off work. I was wonderingg if maybe some how she got precum on her hand and then went to the shower, she said she washed her hair first so would the shampoo kill off the precum or sperm, if there even was any? Is this a pregnancy risk and also it was 7 days after her period had started so i dont think she was ovulating?
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Sam W
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Hi Tony,

We have been over scares like this with you before, and have. Can you please go back and re read the info we have given you in those previous conversations?

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Tony25
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Yes but this is a different scenario. I just want a reassurance.
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Sam W
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This situation is actually very similar. You are worried about transfer of pre-cum from someone's hand to their genital region with many, many stops in between. So, again, please go back and re-read the info we gave you in this previous thread, as our answers about the risk level has not changed: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/54/t/000262/p/1.html#000011

If you need even more info, read this:
http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000

Have you been taking any steps to feel less anxious about sexual activity?

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Tony25
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Im asking if maybe it got in her hair when she washed it and when she rinsed her hair it might of went to her vagina?
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Sam W
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Ok, in the link I gave you above, what activities does it say cause pregnancy? Do you see the situation you described listed there at all? If you don't see it listed as a way pregnancy can happen? Then it isn't.

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What if i went pee for the second time, then i went to finger her? Would there even be any thing that would get her preg? I just worry soooo muchh about everything! After i went pee i washed my hands with little soap and then wiped my hands off, would that remove sperm? Also would shampoo kill sperm
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Sam W
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That would not alter the risk level.

You can read about the fragility of sperm here: Who's Afraid of Sperm Cells?

If you are feeling this anxious about the level of sexual behavior, then it is sound to scale that back. And, if you are having recurring anxiety, it is sound to seek out some mental health care. We can help you with both those issues. What we will not do is continue to answer these types of pregnancy risk questions from you, Ok?

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