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Ollandert
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I went a bit further with my girlfriend a couple days ago and as usual I have stressed myself out over some thought up pregnancy risk.

Anyway, on to the description. She gave me a (for lack of a better word) handjob. She had panties (and a dress) on, and I was "out." At one point I stood up and moved slightly and I have made up in my head that somehow I touched her with my penis without realizing it. We carried on, but stopped before I finished, but precum and a tiny bit of semen had come out. She then got up and washed her hands.

I have read most of your articles many times through, but I cannot shake the feeling. Was there any risk at all of pregnancy with this situation?

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Sam W
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Hi ollandert,

Ok, in the articles you've read, what did you learn about the risk of what you described?

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Thank you for the response!

I interpret them as "no risk" in any scenario like this. Is that correct?

I would definitely describe myself as a worrier.

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Sam W
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Yes, that is correct.

If doing sexual stuff is stressing you out, sometimes it's helpful to dial back the behaviors to only ones where you a)know the risk and b) are comfortable with that risk.

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Ollandert
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Thank you.

So in this situation, there would be no risk to be comfortable with? Only my over active head stressing me out, right?

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Sam W
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Correct.

If you're feeling stressed, for any reason, sometimes it's good to do some self-care: Self-Care a La Carte

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Thank you very much. I'll check that out.
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