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MirrorMask11
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Hey guys so I had a bad pregnancy scare almost three and a half weeks ago. My bf and I took a test and it came out positive. Scared the hell out of us. We took seven more test and they came out negative. I'm on birth control and we took the test two weeks before my placebo. Since then and a health center visit later last week I had my period. Nothing abnormal . Well I know I'm not pregnant but my bf is so traumatized he won't let it go. He is getting better and is talking to a councilor. That leave me with thoughts in my head wondering if I should be worried. I just need some help as to how I dismiss this fear.
Thanks a bunch

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Edith_*
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Hello there Mirror!

Sounds like you know you are not pregnant, so that's a good start. We cannot tell you if you "should" be worried because worry is a feeling and feelings don't work that way. All we can do is give you the facts -- which we have -- and my advice would be to stick to those facts. [Smile]

Have you seen this article? It has *great* ideas of how to take care of ourselves when we are having a hard time. I'd say maybe you can give it a try and see if something in there sounds like something might work for you. [Smile]

Self-Care a La Carte

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"Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it " (...'cause no one else will) -Gandhi-

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MirrorMask11
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Thank you [Smile] I have been doing a lot of those things in the article I guess it will only take time befor my worry will go away. [Smile]
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