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h.kirk100
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So, my boyfriend and I were fooling around in january 1-3. We dry humped, I gave him a blow job, he fingered me and ate me out. At a few points I was in running shorts and only had a thong on under them. He was in underwear. Is there anyway that because of the amount of fluid on our clothes I could be pregnant?
Now, I did start and have a period on the 3rd. My question is though, would I still have had a normal period then since we did stuff that day? I am supposed to get my period today or tomorrow and I am freaking out. Please help

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Sam W
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Hi hkirk,

Can you please take a look at this thread? I think it will answer your question about dry humping

http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000

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h.kirk100
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Thanks Sam!

I did take a look at it, I guess the reason I am wondering is because I had on really short shorts and a thong. And he was in underwear.
Also, does having a period the day after you do stuff make you in the clear? I just was curious like if implantation hasn't happened yet if you could still have a period.
I am supposed to start today or tomorrow but havent yet [Frown]

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In the link that you read, what does it say about shorts or underwear in terms of dry humping?
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It says there is no risk. I just am freaking myself out I guess. So, you dont think there is any reason to worry?
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No one can tell you whether or not to worry: that's an emotional response and it isn't always entirely logical. But our assessment of your risk is the same as what you read in the article (and we're the people who write those articles, so you'll get the same answers from those pieces as you get from us).

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Okay! Thank you so much [Smile] So I have a zero chance risk? I am just confused because I think I was supposed to start my period today.
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h.kirk100
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I still havent started my period [Frown] I did take a pregnancy test this morning though. It was negative. Can you please give me some advice. Can I rule out pregnancy? I am still pretty nervous
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Pregnancy tests are accurate after 14 days of the risk. If you followed the instructions of the test then a negative result should be trusted. [Smile]

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h.kirk100
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The risk was a month ago. I had my period January 3rd-7th but I havent had one since [Frown] I am still kind of nervous.
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h.kirk100
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I am really sorry to keep bothering you guys with questions. I just am still concerned. I havent started my period and I think I was supposed to start Friday. I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning and it was negative. I dont think pregnancy is something that is possible but I need reassurance. Please tell me what you think. I cant think of anytime when I have been late for my period [Frown] PLEASE HELP
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Honestly, you already answered what the information says per the risk AND taken a test. I don't know what else we can tell you save to look through this article: MIA, or Dude, Where's my Period?. You'll want to pay attention to where it says about stress and periods.

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There are a lot of reasons why a period can be late or even skipped. Pregnancy is not the only one, especially when pregnancy is not even an issue. Periods are not always the same. Our bodies are not machines so we shouldn't expect the same everyday. [Smile]

You had a negative pregnancy test, I don't know what can be more reassuring than that. [Smile]

I'm going to leave you a link that might be helpful:

M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period?

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So basically youre saying I have no reason to worry? and pregnancy isnt possible?
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That is correct.

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h.kirk100
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Thank you so much for your replies! I am just freaking out [Frown] I am almsot 20 and I dont remember ever being late for a period. Lets just say that my boyfriend and I did something that posed a pregnancy risk in January around the 1st. If I took a pregnancy test two days ago(when I was a day late for my period) Would I trust those results 100%? Or test again? I dont understand where my period is and I am at college and I really dont have a healthcare provider to talk to. Sorry to keep bugging you guys
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