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lovinglife
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my bf an I have been together for 8 months now. Well sort of. When we first met he was nice to be around. But I am a straight up person while he is a push over. All of a sudden he is bold and loud.I don't kno if it was just fake or he got it from me? [Confused] He goes about talking like my dad and telling me what to do and who to talk to. Like the othe day he called me to argue about some guy that lives close by that he says his friends say I'm sleeping with. His friends have texted me telling me naughty things , and I have shown him. He says I should do whatevr I want. [Eek!] But still accuses me of having sex with my neighbour.
I think that his friends are jealous of our relationship, because he is the only one of them that is in a relationship.His friends really rule him and tell him what to do. They drive his car when they feel like but he doesn't want to make time to come by me when I ask him to. His friends also have told me about some other girl he has, When I ask about her he says its none of my business or its a lie. I don't kno if he is playing me and his friends know he is , so they can flirt with me. Or they are just jealous and are making things bad for him because he is a push over.

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lovinglife
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I need an answer! please
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Heather
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Dod you read this answer on your other post: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/023520/p/1.html#000000

If not, do take a look. You've already reported this person putting you at risk for something you didn't want to be at risk of, and being dishonest with you when the states have been very high. That, ALL BY ITSELF, is very sound reason not to stay in a relationship with this person.

If on top of that, this person is trying to control you, he's been making accusations and all of this other stuff, that's all a pretty solid indication this isn't a good or a healthy relationship to continue being in.

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