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sd911
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Me and my gf have sex, but i never
can tell when she orgasms. Her chest
goes red, and stuff and she moans but
i still don't know the exact time.
How do i know when she is having
a orgasm, or is about to have one?

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Heather
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You ask her to tell you, that's how.

Really. There are few things more arousing and exciting than having a lover tell us when they're about to hit their peak.

There aren't any "signs" or obvious evidence of a woman having orgasm, so, you ask the girl to tell you. If she doesn't know, you realize that since sex is about being close to your partner, enjoying your body and being pleasured it doesn't really matter that much anyway.

Because it doesn't.


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surfrgrl
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I totally agree with her reply. You should ask her what she is feeling, what she likes, if she likes it..... That is the only real way to know.
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Mophead
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Yeah. And remember it's not even that important whether she orgasms, as long as you enjoy yourselves, and it's done safely.
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