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samara98
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Hey everyone,

So I've really liked a girl who goes to my university for almost 3 months now. Around a month ago, when we were still at uni, I learnt from a couple of her friends that she liked me too. However I couldn't pursue anything at the time because I still had a boyfriend. At that point, though, we were hanging out a lot and I knew we really got on. Since breaking up for summer I have broken up with my boyfriend and told her. We talked a loot in the first couple of weeks of summer and had really frequent in-depth conversations but couldn't see each other because of work placements and holidays and stuff - we finally had a date last Thursday though, and I thought it went great. We got along really really well and had a ton to talk about, and at the end of the ate she suggested meeting up again but we made no concrete plans.

The problem is...I'm starting to doubt whether she's interested anymore, and don't know whether to keep pursuing stuff when she's unresponsive. We went on the date, sure, but we hadn't spoken since the date until today when I messaged her on facebook. And now she hasn't replied for several hours. I feel like I have to keep making the effort with texting her to hang out etc, otherwise she won't do anything, but I don't know if that's just down to her being really shy with girls (her friends have told me she is) or if she's no longer into me. Should I ask her to hang out again? Or should I just leave it? She is driving me insaane with her unresponsiveness and I don't wanna keep putting myself out there if she's no longer interested!

Thanks for reading [Smile]

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samara98
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It's worth adding I guess that she was being like this whilst we were at uni and I knew for sure that she liked me, but I wouldn't have known unless her friends told me
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Samara, we'll be more than happy to help you out over on the new boards: http://scarleteen.com/bb/index.php

We're closing these boards down in another couple of days and moving to the new boards, so we are asking our users to post their questions there, so the conversation doesn't get interrupted when these boards close.

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samara98
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Ohh ok! Thank you for letting me know [Smile]
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